It’s inevitable that during your sexually active life, you’re going to have times where it’s difficult for you to reach climax. It doesn’t mean you’re not enjoying the sex you’re having, it simply means your body isn’t reacting to your enjoyment as you wished it would.

If you’re having a hard time orgasming, the fix won’t be found in your medicine cabinet– It’s found on your Internet! Believe it or not, porn is the best cure for failing to orgasm.

VISUAL

Scientists have discovered that it takes a man an average of 5 extra minutes to cum when they’re blindfolded, or when it’s completely dark. Why? Because seeing the act is as much of a stimulant as feeling it is. When you watch porn, you get to know what you like seeing, and what you don’t. Is it hotter for you to have someone bent over doggy style so you can see their backside, or do you want them to be in the missionary position so you can see their breasts? And for women, do you want to see your man softly kiss your body, or do you want to see him get rough and rail you against a wall? Sight is a very important part of the sexual experience, and seeing something you like can make the difference between having an orgasm and not having an orgasm.

POSITIONS

How did you learn how to have sex? If you’re like 98% of the world, you learned through watching porn as a teenager. You knew that one of you would be on the bottom, one on the top, and what part your organs played in the encounter. It’s no different when you’re older! Sure you can experiment with new positions, but when you watch them on porn, you can visually see the benefits to each position. If you know you have a better chance at orgasming with deep penetration, then watch a few adult videos to see which positions seem to let you get the deepest.

SETTINGS

Most people stick to the bedroom when having sex. After all, it is the place people feel most comfortable. But there are millions of places to have sex! If you’ve never thought about having sex in a parked car before and you see someone do just that in a porn, it might spark your curiosity to venture outside the bedroom. The excitement and risk factor of doing it in adventurous places will heighten your senses, which will allow you to have better, bigger, and easier orgasms. Browse sex videos of people having sex in new places to get ideas. Some might appeal to you, but chances are a majority of them will. Take the settings as tips so you have ideas of where to try it next. Having new senses surrounding you will give you a whole new experience, which will help stimulate a strong climax.

FANTASY

Most people have the same mundane fantasy: Threesomes, role play, you know the drill. But the makers of pornos are kinky people, and they branch out into areas that you wouldn’t have imagined on your own. How was the first guy to film a plushie video to know that it would spark a world wide phenomenon? Or the director who first suggested a man suck a girls toes know that he would eventually shape Quentin Tarantino’s foot fetish? Porn directors tend to be ahead of the curve when it comes to fantasies and fetishes, and their videos have created curiosity from literally countless people. Watching porn can show you things that turn you on that you may have never known about. The visual of someone have honey licked off their stomach may be enough to make you orgasm without any type of physical stimulation at all. Now imagine what that would do if you lived out that act while having sex? Fantasies not only give you something new to try, they also provoke different sensors in the mind to be turned on, which will help you reach orgasm.

Porn isn’t just good for motivation to ‘entertain’ yourself when you’re alone; it can take you from having trouble climaxing to knowing how to have a perfect orgasm. If you haven’t reached the big O in a while, let the porn industry help you out!