Three Reasons To Embrace Your Curves In Bed

Posted on May 3, 2013 by Quinn

Let’s face it: For most women in America, the thinner they are, the better they feel about themselves. Between constantly seeing new-generation sex symbols as stick-thin women and having only a handful of popular ‘overweight’ celebrities showcased in movies and television shows, it’s no wonder that women of today have a complex that leaves them feeling frumpy when fat.

But we have good news for women carrying a few extra pounds: Men don’t only mind when you’re carrying a little junk in the trunk– They prefer it!

In a scientific study conducted by Men’s Health Magazine (and we’re using the term ‘scientific‘ loosely here), a group of 80 men were shown three photos of women wearing the same outfits with both the same hairstyles and makeup– One of a women considered underweight by the Body Mass Index, one considered to be in the healthy BMI weight range, and one considered overweight. Of the 80 men, less than 5% of them choose the underweight woman as the most attractive. 42% of them chose the woman of healthy weight, but a surprising 53% of men said that the woman above the healthy BMI range was the sexiest.

Instead of covering your curves, start to flaunt them! Here are three reasons our Sexperts think you should get the most bang for your belly:

You’ll be a more desired wife
Since the dawn of time men have been subconsciously choosing wives based on the size of their hips– and the bigger is the better! Bigger hips and thighs are linked to fertility and overall health, which evolution has proved to be a big attraction factor for men seeking a life-long mate. Continue reading →

Spring Has Sprung– And So Has Your Sex Drive

Posted on March 27, 2013 by Quinn

Top sexual research experts at Harvard University, The University of California, Miami State University along with multiple other prominent research facilities have found undeniable signs that both singles and people in relationships have a significantly lower amount of sex than they do during the rest of the year. So naturally with the dawning of spring comes the reawakening of your long lost libido! If you’re a little rusty from a winder of little sex, how do you get back into the swing of things in a comfortable way?

Our Sexperts have compiled a list of the 5 must-do’s to get back into a sex routine!

STRETCH!!! …Seriously though, stretch.
Let’s face it, we all get a little lazier in the winter. With the cold weather promoting us to spend more time on our couches and the icy sidewalks convincing us to take the subway to work, our bodies can get a little stiff over the season. Whether you do an in-home yoga routine or you head to the gym to limber up, giving your body the chance to stretch is a big must before diving back into bed.
Drink lots of water
Hydration isn’t only great for your skin, but being properly hydrated gives your body better stamina, making it more likely that you’ll last longer in bed. Continue reading →

The Blessing Is A Curse: Why Having A Big Dick Can Hinder You In Bed

Posted on March 4, 2013 by Quinn

If you’re a frequent SexSeacher, there’s no doubt you’re already familiar with our newest addition to the SS team, Erika Jordan. Erika is one of the biggest know-it-all’s about sex in the best way possible. She’s experienced nearly everything in the sack, so she has intimate knowledge of almost any sex question you could have. That’s why we’ve brought her on to answer any and every question you have about love, lust, and everything that goes on in between.

This week we had a question from someone with a very large problem. To put it the most delicate way possible, he’s a little too well endowed and women have a hard time receiving what the good lord game him.

We know that most men without this problem would love to have it, but men who are effected by it generally whistle a different tune. While a slightly larger than normal penis is generally pleasurable in bed, a too-big penis can be extremely painful for someone who isn’t used to the size.

So what can you do if you go into a sexual situation knowing that your member might be a bit much to take?

Have realistic expectations
If this is the first time you and your lady are getting naked together, don’t expect intercourse. The human body is only designed to take so much, and if she hasn’t had the chance to adjust, then diving in isn’t really an option. Thinking that you’re in for a passionate night may leave you disappointed, so don’t go into it with high expectations.
Have her do a little homework
When you’re in school, you do homework so when the big test comes around you’re ready. That’s exactly what she’ll have to do here. Have her physically prepare herself with the help of dildos and stretchers so you don’t injure her during the big moment.
Be comfortable with oral sex
Oral sex is a two way street. If you’re not planning on giving her something that will leave her satisfied, don’t expect the same in return! Chances are until she’s prepared for your size you’ll be stuck in Blow Job City, which can very quickly become vacant if you’re not willing to give her the same! Go down on her as much as she goes down on you so you can continue to get your jollies off.
Have patience!
Some women’s bodies can adjust within a day, and some can take weeks. Whatever you do, don’t force the issue. You’ll have to trust her word on when she’s ready, otherwise you’ll run the risk of simply not getting laid at all.

Want to know Erika’s tips on dealing with a big dick? Check out her video on the subject under the cut! Continue reading →

You Have A Better Chance Of Finding Sex After Valentine’s Day Then Before, New Study Shows

Posted on February 19, 2013 by Quinn

We know that most single people were scrambling to find action before February 14th, but a new study shows that the smart people weren’t in a rush: People are more likely to find sex in the two weeks following Valentine’s Day than they are to find it on the days leading up to the holiday.

According to Pace University in New York City, nearly twice as many people in North America find new sexual partners between February 14th and 28th than one4s who do between February 1st and 14th.

“There’s an urgency for those looking for love before Valentine’s Day because of the emotional effects that come along with being alone. People who genuinely want to be in a relationship often feel overwhelmed at the thought of being alone on Valentine’s Day for fear that seeing others happy will amplify their sadness,” says Pace professor Karl MacIver. “But that’s not the case for those simply looking to have sex. People who are looking for a strictly physical relationship have a better chance of finding it post-February 14th. The emotional stigma that comes along with the time of year has worn off by this point, and many people who were looking for relationships begin to settle for the idea of sex.” Continue reading →

Look Sexier Naked By Valentine’s Day… Without Working Out!

Posted on February 11, 2013 by Quinn

With Valentine’s Day a mere three days away, hitting the gym isn’t going to help you very much with looking better by Thursday. But you don’t need to lower the scale in order to feel slim and sexy for the big day. In fact, in a poll by Maxim Magazine in 2012, nearly 88% of men say they prefer women with a little extra cushion, so if you’re still feeling the Christmas weight, don’t sweat it!

Our Sexperts have the top 5 ways to look sexy without having to hit the gym for the big day-o’-love!

GET A SPRAY TAN
Before you roll your eyes and move on to the next step, hear us out: A tanned body is twice as likely to look toned than pale skin does, and spray tans don’t cause the negative side-effects that tanning beds do, like melanoma. We’re not suggesting that you go out and Jersey Shore your body, so don’t worry about looking orange. Most tanning studios that offer spray tans allow their clients to choose from a variety of tones and shades, so you’ll get your desired look without having to spend weeks in the bed.
USE YOUR BRONZER AND HIGHLIGHTER ON YOUR ENTIRE BODY Continue reading →

It’s Quitting Time: Your Job Is Ruining Your Sex Life

Posted on January 28, 2013 by Quinn

If you don’t like your job, then this news isn’t going to make that any better: New studies from the University of Montana show that there’s a major link between erectile dysfunction and career related stress.

According to a new research study of men who suffered from chronic ED that spanned over 4 years, nearly 90% of them had something in common that had nothing to do with their physical health: They all hated their jobs.

“People tend to underestimate just what a stressful work environment can do to their physique,” says Jessica Robson, a professor at the Montana school. “Having work-time stress doesn’t only effect you during your 9-5. It forces your body to become accustomed to a higher blood pressure that can effect your sexual performance.”

Not exactly what men want to hear, but the good news is there’s a solution: Yoga.

“We challenged the men who experienced ED as a side effect of an overly stressful lifestyle to spend at least 5 hours a week practicing yoga, and the changes in the way their bodies performed were phenomenal,” said Robson.

According to the study, the advantages that yoga offers to men suffering form ED are greater than most medications prescribed for the problem.

In fact, men not only saw better results from yoga than they did with meds, but they saw longer lasting results. Where medications provided a temporary fix for ED, yoga helped increase the stamina and ability to get an erection for extended periods of time. And not only will it help you last, it will likely make you better in bed. The strengthening and muscle toning that comes along with yoga training allows you to get into positions you otherwise wouldn’t have been able to attempt.

If you’re not ready to say goodbye to your salary, hit up the yoga studio! It will help you get hard and can make you last longer than you’re used to and will give you an entirely new outlook on your born-again sex life.

What Do You Wish You Knew About Sex Before Losing Your Virginity?

Posted on January 9, 2013 by Quinn

We all stress over our first time having sex before we actually get around to doing the dirty. Thinking about if it will hurt, how long it will last, what will happen when it’s done– Sexual experiences for the first time are a world of questions that you simply don’t know the answers to.

Well the users of Reddit, a public forum that covers any and every subject under the sun, asked each other what they wish they knew before they had sex for the first time, and their answers ranged from surprising to inspiring to downright accurate.

See what people from all over the world had to say about it!

“There is no perfect moment for the first time so don’t plan it. If you are planning it on a specific time you are under pressure and it won’t meet your expectations by any mean.” -cruzer71

“If you think someone can hear you, they can probably hear you.” -cute_as_corgis

“Muscular endurance. Once your arms start to shake it gets hard to focus.” -Doomskank

“That the person I’m having sex with wants to see me naked and I shouldn’t be having a heart attack about what they think since they already want it.”- wellwhatishername Continue reading →

Get Engaged Over Christmas? You Might Want To Sign Up For Sex Search Now And Save Yourself Time In The Future: Christmas Engagements Are Likely To Fail

Posted on January 2, 2013 by Quinn

If you’re already sick of seeing engagement announcements on your Facebook page from friends and colleagues who had the question popped over the holidays, you can put away your envy: A new study reveals that couples who get engaged within three weeks of Christmas are more likely to fail than those who get engaged at any other point of the calendar year.

The University of North Carolina has published findings stating that nearly 40% of all engagements taking place near Christmas will end before they make it to the isle, and nearly 80% of all Christmas engagements end in divorce.

What’s the cause for such a high failure rate? According to the college, men are less likely to think through their decision to wed when asking their brides-to-be around the holiday season.

“Much like singles feel the pressure to find a relationship around the holiday, couples often feel pressure to take their relationship a step further,” says study head and professor of psychology Erica Armstrong.

When the holidays come around, men often struggle to find appropriate gifts for women they’re in serious relationships with. Armstrong suggests that many men settle on the idea of a proposal as a Christmas surprise as they think it will make for a romantic surprise, but Christmas proposals are often not thought through in the long run.

“Men concentrate so much on having a romantic gesture during the holidays that they don’t put much thought into what follows with the commitment they’re making,” says Armstrong. “Most people who propose near Christmas are looking to have a proposal, not a marriage.”

Translation: If you get engaged around Christmas, you’re probably going to be single before long!

If you are one of the near 3.2 million couples who were given an engagement ring in December (this according to a New York Times article that was published this week), what can you do to make sure your engagement will turn into a lasting marriage? Simple: Plan for it!

The study went on to show that the men who planned the proposal based on the relationship and not on the time of year were twice as likely to have a successful marriage. Before you pop the question, think beyond the big moment: Do you want a marriage, or do you just want an easy present to give to your significant other? If it’s the former, enjoy the wedding! But if it’s the ladder, take advantage of the Sex Search Christmas sale prices– You’ll be glad you did in a few months from now!

Are You Wrapping It Up Properly? New Study Shows Most People Use Condoms Wrong

Posted on December 29, 2012 by Quinn

There’s good news in the world of STD prevention: The number of condoms sold in the United States rose by 25% in 2011. So either one lucky guy who practices safe sex is having a lot more of it, or more men are smartening up about their sexual health.

Unfortunately, many of those men (maybe even you) are making crucial mistakes when it comes to condom use. Strapping it on and giving ‘er a go doesn’t fit the bill anymore– You need to make sure you’re doing it right!

These are the top 5 condom mistakes guys make without even knowing it, and what you can do to make them right:

You’re not leaving space at the tip
Sure it looks a little odd having extra latex space between your weenier and the end of the condom, but that small bit of space is going to be what keeps the condom working. That space is crucial for the seamen to have a place to go. Your little fellas swim so fast out of your body that if you don’t leave enough space (at least quarter of an inch), they’re likely to break the condom. 24.3% of unplanned pregnancies caused while wearing a condom were reported to have been caused because of this issue.
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Hit The Radio: Music Can Help You Last Longer During Sex

Posted on December 28, 2012 by Quinn

New studies have been released claiming that listening to music while working out can help you work out longer. Why? Music gives you something to concentrate on other than your body. It helps you forget about your muscle tension and the burn from your exercise, and having a rhythm to concentrate on can even help regulate your breathing.

So what does this have to do with sex? When you strip away the pleasure, sex is little more than a great cardio workout. With that logic, is it possible that listening to music can help improve your sexercise?

Doctors are now saying that one of the best natural battles against early ejaculation is to simply pump the music during intercourse.

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