Look Sexier Naked By Valentine’s Day… Without Working Out!

Posted on February 11, 2013 by Quinn

With Valentine’s Day a mere three days away, hitting the gym isn’t going to help you very much with looking better by Thursday. But you don’t need to lower the scale in order to feel slim and sexy for the big day. In fact, in a poll by Maxim Magazine in 2012, nearly 88% of men say they prefer women with a little extra cushion, so if you’re still feeling the Christmas weight, don’t sweat it!

Our Sexperts have the top 5 ways to look sexy without having to hit the gym for the big day-o’-love!

GET A SPRAY TAN
Before you roll your eyes and move on to the next step, hear us out: A tanned body is twice as likely to look toned than pale skin does, and spray tans don’t cause the negative side-effects that tanning beds do, like melanoma. We’re not suggesting that you go out and Jersey Shore your body, so don’t worry about looking orange. Most tanning studios that offer spray tans allow their clients to choose from a variety of tones and shades, so you’ll get your desired look without having to spend weeks in the bed.
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Got Cologne? Spritz It Up, Fellas! New Studies Show Women Are Attracted To Men Who Wear Perfume

Posted on December 22, 2012 by Quinn

Alright fellas, let’s envision your next date night: You dress up, shave nicely, do your hair and maybe even wear the nice shoes you’ve been waiting for a good excuse to break out. But unless you’re taking this extra key step, you may be getting in your own way of getting laid.

What’s that step, exactly? It’s simple: Putting on perfume.

Seriously.

“Smell, sex and memory centers share close quarters in the brain, the scent of arousal leaves the most lasting impression,” said a staff writer over at Ask Men. Women associate scent with sex so strongly that they often aren’t capable of reaching the height of their satisfaction unless they can smell something familiar and arousing.

According to new studies, a quick spray of cologne may be the easiest way to turn on your woman. But now that you know the trick, how do you execute it? What should you wear? Dr. Frank Menula says that no matter what you put on, it should always have the same base: musk.

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Rev His Engine: 5 Ways To Get Him Going

Posted on December 21, 2012 by Quinn

When the temperature drops, so do libido’s. In fact, studies out of New York University’s department of psychology suggests that the sex drive of the average man drops so much in the winter months that it resembles someone 5 years older than himself. So that 25-year-old you’re dating is acting more like a 30-year-old in the sack.

While it’s not your responsibility to keep him up at all times, it will benefit you to know how to turn him on when the mood strikes! Our Sexperts have put together the 5 easiest and hottest ways to turn on your man even after the summer heat has fizzled away.

Give him a surprise from behind
We here at Sex Search think that sex should be anything but routine, which is why we often steer women away from hand jobs. If you’re incorporating it with a blow job, it can be great! But if you’re giving one on its own it can leave a lot to be desired– Unless you spice it up! Instead of doing the usual pants dance (that’s the name we gave to the action of slowly teasing your man as to whether or not you’re going to undo his zipper and show him a good time), surprise him from behind and start without warning. Giving him a hand job with your arm wrapped around his body from behind will allow you to have your plan flat against the underside of his penis as you stroke it, which is how he feels when he pleasures himself. Studies from Men’s Health Magazine show that men actually prefer this feeling to how a woman’s hand is usually positioned because it’s what they’ve conditioned themselves to enjoy through years of masturbation. But you have an advantage: The only sensation men get while giving themselves a hand job is purely through their penis, but you’ll be able to kiss his neck, back, arms and ears to give him an added sensation he’s not used to.
Try a new groom
Grooming habits are extremely important to men. If you’re expecting to turn him on while sporting a 5 o’clock shadow, you may find yourself left to finish the job on your own. Whether it be shaving a landing strip for the first time, going full Brazilian or even pulling a Jennifer Love Hewitt and vajazzling your vajayjay, your man is going to want to experience first-hand what your new groom feels like against his body. Continue reading →

Turn Your Hookup Into A Piece Of Art: Why Body Paint Is Amazing Foreplay

Posted on November 15, 2012 by Quinn

The University of Miami in Ohio published findings in 2011 that claimed nearly 80% of American adults between 30 and 45 say their sex lives are below average– And that study didn’t even include married people! With such easy access to sex through online dating, people are still finding it difficult to have interesting love lives.

If you’re sick of dressing up and using your same old boring sex toys, our Sexperts have a great new way to keep things exciting in the bedroom, all the while creating something you can enjoy long after the orgasm has subsided: Art.

“The simplicity of having a new texture against your skin, especially in the area surrounding genitals, can be an extremely arousing and pleasurable experience,” said Sandra Kalvans, a sex therapist out of Boulder, Colorado. “That’s why people enjoy things like massage oils and whips– They’re sensations that the skin doesn’t often experience.”

When it comes to your genitals, there’s almost no sensation that can duplicate that of a soft paintbrush and moist paint. Our Sexperts have come up with three new and sensual ways to bring art and sex together.

Paper + Paint + Bodies
Get a large sheet of paper from a hardware or art supply store and lay it on hardwood or tiled flooring. With a large, flat brush paint each others bodies with a non-toxic body paint and lay yourselves on the sheet once you’re covered. Not only will the feeling of the flat bristles make your skin electric, but studies have shown that both men and women find the human figure more desirable when presented as a 2D visual. What’s that mean? Simply put, guys and gals think pictures of bodies are sexier than real-life bodies. So when you see yourselves in the buff as art on the paper, you’re more likely to feel the urge to get it on.

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Monday Quickie: How To Spice Up Your Halloween

Posted on October 29, 2012 by Quinn

We’re only two days away from Halloween, but many people are still at a loss on how to make this the best October 31st yet. During a holiday known for bringing out the sex appeal in the least expecting people, it’s an important day for singles to break out of their shell and show what they’re made of! If you’re out of ideas on how to showcase your sexy side, our Sexperts have four easy and fast ways to get the kind of attention you want this holiday.

Think about what men are interested in
It’s always a fun time when you and your girlfriend dress up as the different stages of Allie from The Notebook, but the only attention you’re going to attract is that from other women. Think about outfits that would attract not just the eye of a man, but the mind. What are men interested in? What’s a costume that would start a conversation with someone based on the subject matter? Try donning the jersey of a controversial sports star or the outfit of a prominent character in a manly movie. It will draw the attention of the men in the room, and will give you a great starter conversation when you find someone who catches your eye.

Go for quality with your costume
There are very obvious differences between someone who has put thought into what they’re wearing, and someone who has popped over to their closest sex shop and bought one of their $20 fetish outfits. There’s nothing wrong with wearing something you’d find in a generic dress-up section, but buying one out of the package runs the risk of having the same costume as countless other people, and it shows a lack of creativity, which studies show is a vital attraction factor for men. Get ideas from costume shops, but go the DIY route instead of buying one from a box. That way you can put your own personal touch on it, and it won’t look like cheaply made. Continue reading →

Stretch Before Reading This Post: We’re Exploring The Best Kama Sutra Positions

Posted on October 15, 2012 by Quinn

With a new season comes new responsibilities, new distractions, and new excuses to not be spending time in the bedroom. Between fall cleaning, preparing for the upcoming holidays, and most likely starting a new quarter at work, it’s easy to lose motivation to stay active in bed.

Now that the weather is getting cold, it’s never been a more important time to keep the flame alive in the bedroom. If you’re not feeling the heat, we have some of the best Kama Sutra positions to try this month! Our friends at So Feminine have give us great ideas on new and exotic positions. They’ll turn you on, stretch you out, and, most importantly, get you off.

The Erotic V
This one doesn’t just give you extreme pleasure; it suits the needs of people who are body-concious. Let’s face it: If you don’t feel sexy, then you’re not going to have a good time during sex. It’s hard to keep your mind on pleasure when you’re concentrating on ever little wiggle and jiggle of your belly. Luckily this position will let you cover the places you’re likely to be most insecure about. With the female sitting on the edge of a waist-high table, face the male and put your knees over his shoulder. Have the man enter while holding the woman by the hips, and have the woman lock her hands around his neck. This will allow for good control while thrusting, and will allow your legs to cover the parts you don’t want them to see. The position plays double duty as a pleasure enduser and a body cover up.

The X-Rated
This may be one of the more difficult positions to get into, but it’s extremely pleasurable for both parties, and it will give him a view to die for. Have the man lay down on the bed, facing up. The female lowers herself onto him in reverse cowboy position and extends her legs so her feet are laying flat on either side of his head. Then she extends her upper body, grabbing each of his feet with her hands, putting her body in the shape of an X. Once the pair is in position, she can either gently rock her body or vigorously thrust her hips on his pelvis.

The Ape
A fair warning ahead of time: Your man has to be a little well-endowed in order to successfully do this position. Continue reading →

Break Out The Bubbly: Why Taking A Bath Is More Sexually Appealing Than Penetration

Posted on September 19, 2012 by Quinn

When most couples break out the bubbly, they’re popping a cork and dusting off their flute glassware. But couples might want to reconsider their plans when it comes to bringing bubbles into their home lives! Dr. Katharine Johansson, a sex therapist from Colorado Springs, says that taking a bath is one of the most sexually arousing activities that couples can participate in.

“Most foreplay activities are open doors to begin intercourse,” says Dr. Johansson. “But taking a bath is different. It’s an activity that gets you not only physically close, but emotionally as well as being submerged nude next to your loved one puts you both in quite a vulnerable state. It lets couples explore each others bodies without giving them the opportunity to rush into sex. It’s essentially the most effective form of foreplay because you can touch and play, but you can’t start the main act until the bath is done.”

Much like having sex in a pool or a hot tub, having sex in a bath is opening the door to bacteria that causes UTIs and bladder infections, so having the tub as the setting for your home run isn’t the best idea. That’s why it’s the perfect setting for long and lasting foreplay!

Hopping into a vat of water isn’t necessarily the sexiest thing in the world, so setting the mood is essential to creating a hot atmosphere, so we have the five musts to making a bath the perfect sexual set up.

Clean the bathroom!
Nothing screams ‘unsexy’ like realizing you’re about to get sexy in the same place you go #2. Before you bring someone into your bathroom, organize the area to make it as un-bathroom like as you can. From something as simple as putting the seat down to cleaning off your counters so you don’t have any bathroom-related products in sight. Continue reading →

5 Simple Ways To Shake Things Up In Bed

Posted on September 5, 2012 by Quinn

So you finally found someone online that you actually want to keep around for a little bit. You start getting together more, start having sex on a consistent basis, and before you know it, things start to cool down in the bedroom. When you start to get into a routine with a new partner, it’s hard to keep things fresh in the bedroom.

How do you make sure you’re not making things dull? What can you do to freshen things up if you’ve been with your partner for awhile?

Our Sexperts have found 5 simple and effective tips that you can do in the bedroom to make sure that your passion remains high.

Don’t dim the lights
Everyone is more confident in bed when the lights are off. You don’t have to worry about them seeing the cellulite on your thighs, the extra chub around your belly, the way your boobs awkwardly bounce every time you thrust… There are countless reasons why lights out is better for your ego– But it’s not necessarily better for his eyes. GQ Magazine found in a 2010 survey that nearly 80% of their male readers listed doggy style as their favorite sex position. Why? Because men use visuals as a stimulant during intercourse! That’s why keeping the lights on during sex is so hot for men. It’s an act they’re not used to experiencing, and it allows them to admire every part of your body (even the parts you don’t like!). Next time the two of you are in the bedroom, keep the lights turned on. It’ll ensure that you’re keeping him turned on as well. Continue reading →

Turn On The TV, Turn Up Your Sex Life– Television Shows With The Hottest Sex Scenes

Posted on May 7, 2012 by Quinn

When you have a little alone time to do some research on new positions and things to try in bed (read: when no one’s home and you can watch porn), chances are you’re going to click on the first video that interests you and mindlessly watch it without actually absorbing any of the information that’s being offered to you. Chances are you’re viewing quite a few positions you haven’t tried before, and you’re too distracted by the intercourse to actually use the videos as a learning experience.

Finding new positions and mood setting atmospheres isn’t the easiest task. On one hand, using Google or a basic online search engine is likely to come up with unfortunately dull answers, but watching porn to get ideas tends to be a little too distracting. So what’s the good medium between the two? Television!

Dr. Kendra Perkins, one of Cosmopolitan Magazine’s most trusted sexual health experts, says that watching TV is one of the most effective ways to subconsciously improve your sex life.

“When you watch sex scenes on TV, your brain isn’t as sexually stimulated as it would be while watching porn,” says Dr. Perkins. “Because your oxytocin levels aren’t exaggerated, you’re able to view the scenes as both a pleasure and a lesson.”

According to Perkins, the brain has an easier time remembering specific positions and other arousers (new places to kiss, different ways to touch, etc).

Since our Sexperts are always looking for new ways to help you enhance your sex life, we’ve gone through the best of the best raunchy shows to bring you the top 5 programs that will help you get off while helping you get better in bed.

So which shows made the cut?

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Must-Play Sex Games

Posted on April 17, 2012 by Quinn

Everyone has a general checklist of things they need to do in bed: Go-to dirty talk, must-do moves, and, of course, killer moans and groans. But what most people ignore is one of the most important parts of sex: Having fun! Letting loose and having a good time is as important as the sex itself, so our Sexperts have compiled a list of must-play sex games to get you in the fun-loving mood.

The Newly Weds Game

Everyone wants to know how well their significant other knows them, and this is a great way to test out their ‘you’ knowledge! Strip down to your sexiest outfit and have them stand in the doorway of the bedroom. Ask them trivia styled questions about yourself and have them take one step forward if they get it right, and one backwards if they don’t. And don’t be afraid to get raunchy! Asking them what your favorite song is can be fun, but seeing them respond to ‘What is my favorite sex position?’ will get things steamy before they even reach the bed. Continue reading →

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