Got Cologne? Spritz It Up, Fellas! New Studies Show Women Are Attracted To Men Who Wear Perfume

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Alright fellas, let’s envision your next date night: You dress up, shave nicely, do your hair and maybe even wear the nice shoes you’ve been waiting for a good excuse to break out. But unless you’re taking this extra key step, you may be getting in your own way of getting laid.

What’s that step, exactly? It’s simple: Putting on perfume.

Seriously.

“Smell, sex and memory centers share close quarters in the brain, the scent of arousal leaves the most lasting impression,” said a staff writer over at Ask Men. Women associate scent with sex so strongly that they often aren’t capable of reaching the height of their satisfaction unless they can smell something familiar and arousing.

According to new studies, a quick spray of cologne may be the easiest way to turn on your woman. But now that you know the trick, how do you execute it? What should you wear? Dr. Frank Menula says that no matter what you put on, it should always have the same base: musk.

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Rev His Engine: 5 Ways To Get Him Going

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When the temperature drops, so do libido’s. In fact, studies out of New York University’s department of psychology suggests that the sex drive of the average man drops so much in the winter months that it resembles someone 5 years older than himself. So that 25-year-old you’re dating is acting more like a 30-year-old in the sack.

While it’s not your responsibility to keep him up at all times, it will benefit you to know how to turn him on when the mood strikes! Our Sexperts have put together the 5 easiest and hottest ways to turn on your man even after the summer heat has fizzled away.

  1. Give him a surprise from behind
    We here at Sex Search think that sex should be anything but routine, which is why we often steer women away from hand jobs. If you’re incorporating it with a blow job, it can be great! But if you’re giving one on its own it can leave a lot to be desired– Unless you spice it up! Instead of doing the usual pants dance (that’s the name we gave to the action of slowly teasing your man as to whether or not you’re going to undo his zipper and show him a good time), surprise him from behind and start without warning. Giving him a hand job with your arm wrapped around his body from behind will allow you to have your plan flat against the underside of his penis as you stroke it, which is how he feels when he pleasures himself. Studies from Men’s Health Magazine show that men actually prefer this feeling to how a woman’s hand is usually positioned because it’s what they’ve conditioned themselves to enjoy through years of masturbation. But you have an advantage: The only sensation men get while giving themselves a hand job is purely through their penis, but you’ll be able to kiss his neck, back, arms and ears to give him an added sensation he’s not used to.
  2. Try a new groom
    Grooming habits are extremely important to men. If you’re expecting to turn him on while sporting a 5 o’clock shadow, you may find yourself left to finish the job on your own. Whether it be shaving a landing strip for the first time, going full Brazilian or even pulling a Jennifer Love Hewitt and vajazzling your vajayjay, your man is going to want to experience first-hand what your new groom feels like against his body.  Continue reading

The Trench Coat Fantasy: How To Pull It Off

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A lot sex drive isn’t something that only happens to women. There’s a good chance that you could show up at your man’s house and actually have to work to get his drive going. But when you want it, you want it, and putting in foreplay can seem endless until he’s ready for the main act.

So what can you do to start his engine while barley batting an eyelash? Simple: Wear a trench coat.

In a survey GQ Magazine revealed that nearly 80% of all men have had a fantasy where a girl shows up at their front door wearing nothing but a trench coat a lingerie. There’s nothing that can be easier than showing up, stripping down, and having him be ready to go.

So how do you pull it off properly? Is there an etiquette to surprising someone with a little nudity? Our Sexperts decided to test out the classic fantasy on 5 different guys in 5 different ways. Here’s the good, the bad, and the downright embarrassing of what happened:

THE GOOD

Test #1:
“I decided to go with a traditional girlfriend-shows-up-dressed-to-impress look: I blew out my hair, did my make-up, bought a garter belt, threw on lace stockings, and bought a new bustier to make the ladies pop. I initially thought about opening the coat so he could see the goods right when he opened the door, but his apartment gave me stage fright and I was afraid someone would see. So I opted for posing as sexily as I could against his door frame before I knocked. He already looked a little taken aback when he saw how dolled up I was, but it was nothing compared to the look on his face when I stepped inside and undid the coat. He took about 5 seconds to take it all in, and after that it was on. He was already hard by the time my hands reached him– It couldn’t have worked out better.”

Test #2:
“I didn’t think through the length of the trench coat and it was blatantly obvious that I was naked underneath. As I was walking to his door, I noticed another couple point me out and had to assume they knew what was going on. Other than that, it worked perfectly. I’ve never seen someone that instantly turned on before. I loved it.” Continue reading

Sex Searchers Confess Their Most Embarrassing Bedroom Accidents

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Everyone wants to think that sex is exactly as it is in the movies: Perfect, flawless, and never, ever embarrassing. Well Sex Searchers, there’s a reason for the expression ‘Never say never!’ Sex mishaps happen to the best of us at the worst time, so we’ve asked our users to open up about the most embarrassing things that have ever happened to them in bed. Get ready to leave behind your bashful sides, because our users are baring it all with their bedroom blunders!

 

“The last guy I slept with laid me on my band and told me that he’d do all the world. He started pumping and thrusting and sounding like he was really enjoying himself. He ended going from start to finish in about three minutes, never once noticing that he was between my thighs the entire time. He asked me how it was and I couldn’t bring myself to telling him that he never actually entered me.”
-Becca, 31, New Jersey

“I met a guy online last year after breaking up with my boyfriend of three years. My ex was a lot smaller than this new guy but I really didn’t think it would make that much of a difference. Long story short, this new guy ended up tearing my vagina. It wasn’t just embarrassing, it was pretty horrifying– It resulted in a bloody mess and two stitches. Needless to say, I now require a size check before I get it on.”
-Veronica, 28, Fresco

I’m really into food play, so when I had a girl over last week, we decided to cover her in whip cream and have me lick it off. After downing what we had put on her right breast, I started feeling really sick, so I excused myself to go to the washroom. I ended up being in there for a good 15 minutes when I heard her walk across the room and turn on the lights. That’s when she informed me that she needed to get in the washroom to clean off… Because the whip cream she was covered in was moldy. I was sick for three days and we never did get to finish our night.”
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Monday Quickie: How To Get Her In The Mood

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Let’s face it, fellas: When your girl says she’s not in the mood, it means she’s really not in the mood. But don’t take that as a shot to your ego because as it turns out, her not being in the mood is almost completely biological, not emotional (unless you’re in the doghouse, then her lack of libido may be emotional!). Author and sex therapist Ian Kerner explained in his newest book She Comes First that getting her going isn’t as easy as it is for you.

This Monday Quickie takes all day, but stay with us men, because if you follow this ultra-easy process, she’ll be ready to jump in the sack the second you two see each other.

“Women’s libidos are different in that they need to be prompted first,” said Dr. Kerner, which basically tells you that you can’t simply give her the come-and-get-it eyes and expect her to respond the same way you would if the tables were turned.

So how can you prepare your date throughout the day so they’re ready to go without hesitation when you see them? It’s simple: All-day foreplay.  Continue reading

Monday Quickie: Dress Up Before You Strip Down

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It’s a fantasy among almost every man in the world to have a private show put on just for him. After all, why do you think they spend so much money on private dances at the rippers? Men are visual creatures, so a good show for them can be as sexual as intercourse itself.

So what’s our suggestion for this week’s Monday Quickie? Strip!

In a world where everyone is rushing to get to the finish line, it’s becoming a rarity that couples take the extra step to add a little suspense before the main act begins. But with a little lingerie (and a little striptease), your bedroom adventures could become even hotter in an instant.

What To Wear

If you’re planning on putting on a striptease for your partner, a simple teddybear from Victoria’s Secret won’t do– You need layers! If you want to strip for your man, you need to pile on the clothes before you can peel them off.

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Monday Quickie: Erogenous Zones

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The easiest way to get your partner heated up before the main act is simple and straight forward: Hit their erogenous zones.

Men and women have several areas on their body that have more nerves than others, making them extra sensitive and more likely to get your partner’s libido going. If you want the biggest bang for your buck in the foreplay game, you’ve got to start hitting their trigger spots!

Check out what our Sexperts say are the top 5 most sensitive and sexually stimulating areas for men and women.

If you’re turning on your girl…

  1. Collar bone
    If you’ve ever kissed your girl on her neck before, you’ve probably noticed that her breath picks up a little when you did. A woman’s collar bone has extremely thin skin, making their nerves more sensitive to a gentle touch, like a kiss or a light breath.  Continue reading

This Post Is For The Ladies: How To Get Your Man To Do What You Like In Bed

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You’re home alone, you’re getting hot and heavy, and you’re ready to have a good time. After taking your time pleasing your man orally, it’s only naturally to assume that he’ll be doing the same thing in return. But let’s be serious here– That doesn’t happen. Once you’ve gotten your man going, there’s almost no slowing him down on his way to he home plate.

The problem with that is you want him to slow down! Letting him skip foreplay is like trying to go down a water slide before someone has turned the faucet on.

Our Sexperts know that it can be a little awkward trying to ask your man to do specifics in bed, so we have four easy ways to gently let your man know what you want to ensure you get it!

I love when you take your time doing that– It feels so good.
Nothing boosts a guy’s ego than letting him know you’re enjoying what he’s doing, and if you’re smart, you can use that little ego stroke to your advantage! Instead of just telling him that it feels good, tell him how much you like it when he takes his time doing it. As he keeps going, play it up a little. The more you tell him you like it, the more he’ll be inclined to continue performing without the rush.  Continue reading

Online To Offline: The Easiest Thing You Can Do To Translate The Flame

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The first time you meet someone from an online hookup site like Sex Search, there’s a lot of pressure to ensure that the chemistry to had online translates properly to offline. If there’s no spark, there’s no sex, and that means all that time you spent online was wasted for no reason.

With so much pressure put on making sure there’s a flame between the two of you, how do you overcome it enough to actually enjoy your time together?

Well gentlemen, it’s all about the body language.

New research from the University of Westminster shows that the way a man sits can create an instant connection between him and his date.

When a group of female undergrads were examined while watching videos of men sitting down and having a conversation with women, it was found that the man with the more dominate posture was favored by the survey participants 9 times out of 10.

In the two videos, the man had two different stances: In the first, the man sat very closed with both his arms and legs crossed, offering no hand gestures during the conversation, and the second sat with an open posture with his arms resting on the back of his chair, and remained very animated throughout the video.

Why were so many more woman attracted to the second video? According to Gorkan Ahmetogly, the study’s original author who has since left Westminster and is now teaching at the University of London, it’s all about history.

In nearly all historical accounts, dominant men have more access to resources. Whether that means food and shelter or money, women are instinctively attracted to men with dominate behaviors and body language because they subconsciously feel they will be better taken care of.

Want to be one of those ultra-donimate men? Read on to find out our three simple steps to sitting in a more attractive way! Continue reading

Fun Ways Spice Up Your Easter Weekend

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Most of North America is being treated to a three day weekend this week, which means that you have an extra night to hang out, relax and, best of all, spend more time in bed! Although a lot of Easter weekend is often spent with family and friends, the extra day will allow you to enjoy a little ‘me’ time where you get to concentrate on pleasing yourself– and letting other people please you, too!

Since Easter only comes around once a year, we thought we’d give you a few ideas to spice up your long-weekend sex life! Here are three things Sex Searchers can do to enjoy the three day weekend!

Throw on a bunny costume!

Bunnies have become associated with two things in pop culture over the last few decades: Easter, and Playboy. Since Hugh Hefner started putting long hears and a cotton tail on half-naked women, men have found themselves attracted to the bunny illusion. Why not give him a little excitement that combines Easter with the classic magazine sex symbol? Grab a pair of ears and a small tail from any department store and sex it up with a matching lace bra and panty set. Most men fantasize about being with a Playboy, so the surprise of seeing one in their bed turn them on without you even having to do anything! Since the rest of his weekend is surely to be filled with pictures of bunnies, he’ll be reminded multiple times about your experience in bed together. A fun time in bed and he’ll keep thinking about you even after it’s done? Sounds like an easy achievement to us! Continue reading