Your Body Problems Aren’t As Weird As You Think: Our Experts Dish On Uneven Boobs And Curved Members

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Let’s face it, we all have issues about our bodies. Whether we think our hair is too thin our our bellies are too thick, everyone has issues about their bodies that they’d prefer to change– Especially when it comes to our private parts.

Cosmopolitan Magazine recently talked to Debra Wickman, MD, and Shannon Chaves, PsyD, about the most common body issues men and women have, and they quickly found out that those things we think are only wrong with us are actually wrong with a majority of people!

From uneven boobs to men producing a distinctly unpleasant scent from ‘down there,’ our Sexperts break down what Wickman and Chaves discussed so you can see that your abnormal issue is actually pretty normal after all.

UNEVEN BOOBS
This is the most common issue women face, but because most women aren’t willing to talk about it, females think it only effects them. The truth is, every woman in the world has uneven boobs. Every single one of them. The average breasts are quarter of a size different, but women can be up to two cup sizes in difference from the left to the right before doctors consider it an actual medical issue. It’s easy to let this effect your self confidence because we all want to look perfect while naked, but the sooner you realize it’s normal, the faster you can begin being comfortable in your own skin. But what can you do to conceal the issue on a day-to-day basis? Cutlets! You can purchase breast enhancers (that bare a striking resemblance to chicken cutlets) from nearly any lingerie store in the country. Simply wear one in the cup of your bra that’s lacking and voila! Instant evener.  Continue reading

Don’t Get Te’O'd: How To Know If You’re Talking To Real People Online

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In a cartoon published in New York Magazine in October 1993, two dogs sat at computers where one looks at the other and says, “On the Internet, no one knows you’re a dog.”

If you haven’t heard the explosive news of university football all-star Manti Te’O and his fake dead girlfriend by now, then you’re behind on the times. To make a long story short, a top rated university could-be-an-NFLer football player was duped into thinking that his girlfriend (who he became famous for kicking ass in games in honor of that girlfriend after she died of leukemia in September) was a loving Stanford student for the two years of their relationship when, in reality, she didn’t exist at all. As it stands right now, it looks as though a male friend/fan of Te’O's may have been pretending to be his online girlfriend the entire time, creating an elaborate hoax that roped him into a fake relationship.

How can you protect yourself from getting duped into talking to someone who isn’t who they say they are? Our Sexperts have compiled the biggest red flags for people who are involved in online relationships:

1. Always, always Skype.
Experts say that if they’re not willing to Skypecomputer dating there’s likely something they’re trying to hide, especially if they’ve already sent you photos. “When someone sends you photos but is unwilling to video chat, it’s likely they’re not the people they’re claiming to be. Not having a web cam is not a valid reason: In 2013, everyone has access to the ability to video chat,” says our Sexpert.

2. Do a reverse picture lookup. 
Did they send you photos of themselves? Can you see their profile pictures? Do a reverse photo lookup on Google to see if there are any other matches for those pictures. If you find the images under different names, it’s likely you’re being duped.

3. Research them a little.
So they’ve told you where they work, where they went to school, who their friends are… Look that up a little. On the MTV show Catfish, that’s usually the host Nev’s first clue as to having a liar on the line: Their jobs, friends and hobbies aren’t who they claim to be.

If you cover these bases, you’re likely to find definitive answers as to the validity of your online love.

Don’t Skip Your Beauty Sleep: Catching Z’s Will Keep Your Body Young

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For centuries, vain men and women around the world have been trying their best to get in a proper 8-10 hours of sleep a night to prevent dark circles from forming under their eyes. Beauty sleep is important! Not only can it it improve your outer looks, but it has obvious positive side effects on your inner health, as well.

But beauty sleep is no longer for just for your face. It’s recently been proven by a study conducted by a university in British Columbia, Canada, that getting your doctor-recommended amount of sleep will make your family jewels more visually appealing.

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Got Cologne? Spritz It Up, Fellas! New Studies Show Women Are Attracted To Men Who Wear Perfume

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Alright fellas, let’s envision your next date night: You dress up, shave nicely, do your hair and maybe even wear the nice shoes you’ve been waiting for a good excuse to break out. But unless you’re taking this extra key step, you may be getting in your own way of getting laid.

What’s that step, exactly? It’s simple: Putting on perfume.

Seriously.

“Smell, sex and memory centers share close quarters in the brain, the scent of arousal leaves the most lasting impression,” said a staff writer over at Ask Men. Women associate scent with sex so strongly that they often aren’t capable of reaching the height of their satisfaction unless they can smell something familiar and arousing.

According to new studies, a quick spray of cologne may be the easiest way to turn on your woman. But now that you know the trick, how do you execute it? What should you wear? Dr. Frank Menula says that no matter what you put on, it should always have the same base: musk.

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We’ve Got Our Hands On The Form 4 Vibrator, And Trust Us: You’re Going To Want One, Too!

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We know that the Christmas season is busy for everyone, and sometimes you just don’t have the time to entertain a date. Finding a date on Sex Search can take as little as a few minutes, but that doesn’t mean everyone has the time to do their make-up, set out their outfits, go meet their date in town and finally get around to getting down. On months like this, sometimes you just need to do the job yourself!

Our Sexperts have started testing fan favorite vibrators to let you in on the good, the bad, and the ugly of the sex toy world so you can stay satisfied– Even if you don’t have the time to find action.

We’ve got our hands on the JIMMYJANE Form 4 vibrator and if we were to sum this review up in one word, there’s no doubt on what that would be: Orgasmic.

The Form 4 comes from a line of trusted vibrators that have been redesigned and revamped to give you the most sensation from the a simple and discrete package. It’s new design offers a smaller alternative to other vibrators with the same power, but that doesn’t mean your neighborhood is going to hear what you’re doing if you use it! The Form 4 is impressively quiet for the amount of power it produces. When we compared it to other vibrators of similar sizes, we found that the Form was more subtle than FIVE of its leading competitors. Continue reading

It’s Jilling Off Time: 5 Interesting Facts About Female Masturbation

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A man jacking off is extremely common and there is nothing particularly that interesting about it. However, when a woman jills off, there are far more compelling facts and statistics about this beautiful phenomenon.

Based off research from a recent adult dating survey, there are startling and intriguing statistics based off a woman’s “jilling off” habits.

Read more below for the five interesting facts about female masturbation!

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Sex And The Twenties: The Different Types Of Sex In Your 20′s

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When you’re in your twenties, there are certain types of sexual experiences one has during this time that they don’t have later in life. Some sex is monumental and some sex is just plain regretful.  During this time, while you are trying to figure out who you are, you’re also trying to figure out who you are in the bedroom.

Here is a list of sexual scenarios you are most likely to experience in your twenties:

 ”I’m Bored” Sex

Whether you got over a bad breakup or having a dry spell, there are times when you feel “restless” so to speak and will take whatever you can get.  Whether it’s the medium-cute neighbor who caters to your ego or the foreign guy or gal you met once at a night club, sometimes you will just put yourself out there (most likely during booty call hours) just to bring back some excitement in your sex life.

“One Night Stand” Sex

There is only one decade when having sex with total strangers you meet one night is totally acceptable and that is when you’re in your twenties. Twenty-somethings are prone to going home or bringing home a hot piece of ass, popping a PLAN B pill and going on with their lives.

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Condoms 101: Back To Basics

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According to the New York Times, less than half the schools in North America now provide sexual health and education to their students. Although many political figures (as well as a majority of the Catholic School Boards across the United States) have said that refraining from teaching sex ed will promote abstinence, that doesn’t seem to be the case: 2010 and 2011 had higher rates of teen and early 20′s pregnancies than any other years in history. And, for all the naysayers who will attribute it to people getting married at a younger age, nearly 80% of all the babies born to teen and early 20′s parents in 2011 were born out of wedlock.

It’s easy to assume that these kids are simply not using protection, but Trojan Condoms showed an increase in sales for people between 18 and 25 in 2012, which leads us to a pretty obvious conclusion: People are simply using condoms wrong.

When you’re not taught proper use of condoms in school, chances are you’re going to go the rest of your life putting on your condoms as you always have: Improperly.

Our Sexperts have decided to take it back to to the basics of condoms to show our Sex Searchers exactly what they need to do to ensure they’re being fully protected.

Put it on before you start
A staggering 42% of men in a survey conducted by Vogue Men said they prefer sex without condoms. That’s a whole lot of babies waiting to happen, and even more STDs waiting to get contracted. The survey found that some men dislike the feeling of condoms during intercourse so much that they don’t actually wrap their tool until they’re close to ejaculation. If this is your method, you need to rethink your game. First of all, those condoms will do absolutely nothing to prevent you from STDs if you put them on after already beginning intercourse. Secondly, precum can get a woman pregnant just as easily as cum can. It’s a slight release of ejaculate before the male actually climaxes, so most of the time you can’t feel when it’s about to happen, or even when it’s happening. If you want to stay protected, put on the rubber before you start rocking.  Continue reading

Sex Searchers Confess Their Most Embarrassing Bedroom Accidents

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Everyone wants to think that sex is exactly as it is in the movies: Perfect, flawless, and never, ever embarrassing. Well Sex Searchers, there’s a reason for the expression ‘Never say never!’ Sex mishaps happen to the best of us at the worst time, so we’ve asked our users to open up about the most embarrassing things that have ever happened to them in bed. Get ready to leave behind your bashful sides, because our users are baring it all with their bedroom blunders!

 

“The last guy I slept with laid me on my band and told me that he’d do all the world. He started pumping and thrusting and sounding like he was really enjoying himself. He ended going from start to finish in about three minutes, never once noticing that he was between my thighs the entire time. He asked me how it was and I couldn’t bring myself to telling him that he never actually entered me.”
-Becca, 31, New Jersey

“I met a guy online last year after breaking up with my boyfriend of three years. My ex was a lot smaller than this new guy but I really didn’t think it would make that much of a difference. Long story short, this new guy ended up tearing my vagina. It wasn’t just embarrassing, it was pretty horrifying– It resulted in a bloody mess and two stitches. Needless to say, I now require a size check before I get it on.”
-Veronica, 28, Fresco

I’m really into food play, so when I had a girl over last week, we decided to cover her in whip cream and have me lick it off. After downing what we had put on her right breast, I started feeling really sick, so I excused myself to go to the washroom. I ended up being in there for a good 15 minutes when I heard her walk across the room and turn on the lights. That’s when she informed me that she needed to get in the washroom to clean off… Because the whip cream she was covered in was moldy. I was sick for three days and we never did get to finish our night.”
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Monday Quickie: How To Spice Up Your Halloween

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We’re only two days away from Halloween, but many people are still at a loss on how to make this the best October 31st yet. During a holiday known for bringing out the sex appeal in the least expecting people, it’s an important day for singles to break out of their shell and show what they’re made of! If you’re out of ideas on how to showcase your sexy side, our Sexperts have four easy and fast ways to get the kind of attention you want this holiday.

Think about what men are interested in
It’s always a fun time when you and your girlfriend dress up as the different stages of Allie from The Notebook, but the only attention you’re going to attract is that from other women. Think about outfits that would attract not just the eye of a man, but the mind. What are men interested in? What’s a costume that would start a conversation with someone based on the subject matter? Try donning the jersey of a controversial sports star or the outfit of a prominent character in a manly movie. It will draw the attention of the men in the room, and will give you a great starter conversation when you find someone who catches your eye.

Go for quality with your costume
There are very obvious  differences between someone who has put thought into what they’re wearing, and someone who has popped over to their closest sex shop and bought one of their $20 fetish outfits. There’s nothing wrong with wearing something you’d find in a generic dress-up section, but buying one out of the package runs the risk of having the same costume as countless other people, and it shows a lack of creativity, which studies show is a vital attraction factor for men. Get ideas from costume shops, but go the DIY route instead of buying one from a box. That way you can put your own personal touch on it, and it won’t look like cheaply made. Continue reading