Getting Tired Of Your Vibrator? Here’s 6 Ways To Spice It Up!

Posted on October 25, 2012 by Quinn

Turn on the computer, find a video that tickles your fancy, turn on the vibrator, finish and repeat a few hours later. On the nights where you don’t quite feel like having sex but you still want to get off, sometimes your regular vibrator routine just isn’t enough. Instead of dropping money unnecessarily on a new flashy toy to keep you pleased, our Sexperts have six new ways to get the fullest enjoyment out of the toy you already have.

Give yourself a little foreplay
Foreplay is great buildup towards sex. The will-we-or-won’t-we-go-all-the-way anticipation during oral sex and general touching is enough to make you crave intercourse more than you initially did. When you’re going to use your vibe there’s no doubt that you’re going to get your happy ending, but that doesn’t mean that foreplay won’t give you the same build of adrenaline! A study from the San Antonio University showed that women who gently touch their thighs with their fingers and vibrators allows the brain to release extra oxytocin, which will allow you to have a stronger orgasm.

Build your speed slowly
Ok so maybe you don’t want to spend all afternoon alone in your bedroom, but that doesn’t mean you can’t take your time. Starting with your vibrator on a low speed and slowly building the pressure will make the nerves in your clitoris more sensitive than the would be if you started out on high.
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Skinny Jeans And Sperm: Is The Fashion Trend Making Your Swimmers Fail?

Posted on October 18, 2012 by Quinn

We all know that every swift knock to your cash and prizes can hurt your chances of having a mini-you down the road, but is it possible that wearing certain pants can have the same effect? The information scientists have to date is a little fuzzy, but in short all research points to the same answer: Yes.

Although most research conducted in relation to the connection of sperm count and clothing has revolved around underwear, it’s been found that skinny jeans and briefs have a similar effect on a man’s lower region, so the results of the two are assumed to be the same, and unfortunately the results aren’t ideal.

It’s been found that wearing clothing that’s tight and restricting on your cash and prizes increases the temperature of your testicles, which diminishes your sperm quality.

There’s good news, though: This doesn’t effect every guy wearing tight clothes. According to Dr. Paul Turek, a sexual health specialist, it’s only certain men that it effects– The problem is you won’t know if tight clothing effects you until it’s too late.

If you’re planning on popping out kids in your lifetime, treat skinny jeans like the microwave: Keep a safe distance.

Monday Quickie: Grooming On The Go

Posted on October 1, 2012 by Quinn

There’s nothing worse than realizing your significant other is all revved up and ready to go, only to remember that you’ve skipped more than your fair share of shaving days. If you want to get it in but you’re grooming habits have been recently ignored, it’s safe to assume that you’re going to want to do a quick shave downtown. But taking a razor to your most sensitive area takes time and care. If you rush through it too quickly, you can be left with harsh red bumps and ingrown hairs.

So how do you shave your pubic hair on a time limit?

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Embarrassing Questions: Can You Get Preggo If You Throw Up After Taking Plan B?

Posted on September 27, 2012 by Quinn

No matter how careful you are in bed, there’s always a chance that an accident could happen. The condom could break, the dome could slip out, you could both be drunk and have forgotten protection in the first place… Whatever the reasoning, you could find yourself in a situation that requires you to take the morning after pill.

Plan B, the most widely distributed morning after pill in America, promotes itself as a medication that can immediately prevent pregnancy should it be taken within the recommended timeframe following intercourse. It’s nearly become a household concept and, despite aversion from certain republican presidential candidates, sales for it have been steadily on the rise since 2010.

Despite the fact that so much is known about the morning after pill, there’s one question people are usually left contemplating regarding the baby buffer:

If I throw up after taking the morning after pill, can I still get pregnant?

Unfortunately that question doesn’t have a cut-and-dry answer, but our Sexperts do have some insight as to whether or not you should worry if you’re sick after taking the pill. Continue reading →

Looking For A New Vibrator? Our Sexperts Dish The Dirt On Their New Favorite Toy (Psst! You Can Win One!)

Posted on September 25, 2012 by Quinn

Let’s face it: Sometimes sex just isn’t enough. SexSearch can connect you with millions of people around the globe, but everyone has those nights where they want to enjoy a night alone. That’s why our Sexperts have decided to shed some light on the best, boldest and most body rocking sex toys on the market. From vibrators to lubes, we’re diving into the adult pleasure chest and are pulling out the best of the best to test, review, and share with SexSearch users!

Since we’re all about starting things off with a BANG, our Sexperts got our hands the all-new revamp of a tried-and-tested Elise by LELO and let us say in advance: Get your credit cards ready, ladies, because this is one thing you’ll have to be sure to put on your fall shopping list!

The new and improved Elise 2 was faced with the difficult job of offering more pleasure than its younger sister, the original and bestselling Elise, offered users. After getting to know the first model, our Sexperts were skeptical over whether or not the Elise 2 would prevail. After all, it’s difficult to improve upon perfection, which our staff dubbed the Elise to be from day one. But with more powerful vibrations, new settings and two motors in the shaft, the Elise 2 is every inch an improvement on the fan favorite. Continue reading →

Break Out The Bubbly: Why Taking A Bath Is More Sexually Appealing Than Penetration

Posted on September 19, 2012 by Quinn

When most couples break out the bubbly, they’re popping a cork and dusting off their flute glassware. But couples might want to reconsider their plans when it comes to bringing bubbles into their home lives! Dr. Katharine Johansson, a sex therapist from Colorado Springs, says that taking a bath is one of the most sexually arousing activities that couples can participate in.

“Most foreplay activities are open doors to begin intercourse,” says Dr. Johansson. “But taking a bath is different. It’s an activity that gets you not only physically close, but emotionally as well as being submerged nude next to your loved one puts you both in quite a vulnerable state. It lets couples explore each others bodies without giving them the opportunity to rush into sex. It’s essentially the most effective form of foreplay because you can touch and play, but you can’t start the main act until the bath is done.”

Much like having sex in a pool or a hot tub, having sex in a bath is opening the door to bacteria that causes UTIs and bladder infections, so having the tub as the setting for your home run isn’t the best idea. That’s why it’s the perfect setting for long and lasting foreplay!

Hopping into a vat of water isn’t necessarily the sexiest thing in the world, so setting the mood is essential to creating a hot atmosphere, so we have the five musts to making a bath the perfect sexual set up.

Clean the bathroom!
Nothing screams ‘unsexy’ like realizing you’re about to get sexy in the same place you go #2. Before you bring someone into your bathroom, organize the area to make it as un-bathroom like as you can. From something as simple as putting the seat down to cleaning off your counters so you don’t have any bathroom-related products in sight. Continue reading →

Can Masturbation Lead To Better Decision Making?

Posted on September 18, 2012 by Quinn

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Everybody has their own way to deal with big decisions in their lives. Sleep on it, ask your parents for advice, see what your friends would do… It seems like there are endless suggestions when it comes to making choices in your life. And while everyone has their preference, Harvard University may have just cracked a universal code when it comes to men and decisions: Masturbation.

Researchers at the ivy league school have concluded a study that proves men are more likely to make sound and mature choices within the first hour of reaching climax.

The Harvard research gave 300 men simple tasks and hypothetical situations and had them choose from four potential outcomes for each situation. Questions like “What is the first step you should take when getting into a minor car accident?” and “How often should you change the oil in your car?” were asked and the participants of the study. It was found that men who hadn’t ejaculated within 24 hours of taking the survey were more likely to make brash decisions, going with the answer that seemed easiest instead of the one that was most logical. Continue reading →

The Newest Celebrity Diet Craze: Having Sex To Slim Down

Posted on August 8, 2012 by Quinn

Celebrities are notorious for going to extreme lengths to lose weight, but it looks like Hollywood has finally found a diet that can satisfy their weight loss wants and their sexual appetite: Having sex! According to a segment recently shot for the Rachel Ray show, stars are foregoing the gym and turning to the bedroom to shed their unwanted pounds.

Intercourse as a means to burn calories isn’t an extremely shocking revelation; people have been getting down to slim down for years. But it’s how the stars are doing it. Fitness experts have developed a new way to incorporate exercise and sex so you’re getting the best of muscle pain and internal pleasure.

So what should you be doing to maximize your calorie count in bed? Our Sexperts have the three tips you need to follow to get your sweat on while getting your sweat on!

Get your faces apart
Get into missionary position and place your palms on the bed by either side of their head. Then prop your body up on your arms as though you’re doing a push-up, but try to keep your faces apart as much as possible. As you thrust, your body will naturally force you to use your arms to support more of your body weight, and keeping your faces separated will ensure you’re putting as much weight as possible on your arms. Maintaining this position for three minutes burns nearly the same amount of calories as 15 minutes of a fast-pace on the treadmill, and it gets your arms toned! Continue reading →

Could Frequent Sex Be Bad For Your Relationship?

Posted on July 26, 2012 by Quinn

Orgasms and intimacy and relationships, oh my! In the world of dating a majority of people think that sex acts as a glue to hold everything together, but new studies show that sex itself has very little to do with helping relationships last. Intercourse, however, is very important. Sounds confusing, right? Our Sexperts have broken down the latest research on why you can skip sex, but you can’t skip getting close.

A team of researchers were lead by Dr. Marnia Robinson, a physiologist who recently published the book Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow, in the attempts to find a chemical connection in the brain that connected a physical orgasm with the feeling of love, but their search came up empty.

Although scientists in the past have attributed foreplay and orgasms to solidifying the bond between two people, Dr. Robinson’s team have uncovered evidence that suggests that isn’t the case. The research panel found that foreplay builds sexual tension to the point of explosion, but as fast as it comes it crashes back down. Although higher levels of serotonin are released into the body during an orgasm, the fleeting feeling the body is left with after the adrenaline crash leaves much to still be desired.

So why is it still important to have sex? Robinson claims that physical contact is one of the best ways to sustain a relationship. Eye and skin-to-skin contact are one of the biggest contributors to creating a strong chemical bond; both of which are done during sex. Continue reading →

The Good, The Bad And The Ugly: How The iPhone Has Changed Our Sex Lives

Posted on July 10, 2012 by Quinn

The iPhone has changed our lives in countless ways. We never get lost anymore, we can see our loved ones who are on the other side of the world, we can Google anything from anywhere, and we no longer have to wait until 6 o’clock to hear the latest news from the world. But one of the most noticeable changes for adults has been to their sex lives. Whether it’s for the better or for the worse, there’s a noticable difference between the sex lives of the past and that of our new, technologically advanced lifestyles.

Our Sexperts have looked into the ups and downs we’ve seen since the iPhone broke onto the market, and it’s obvious that the Apple product has both hindered and helped our lives.

iSex Pro: We’re more educated on sex as a whole.

Studies from Washington University have shown that apps like the iKamasutra and iPositions have given the general masses easy access to knowledge about sexual health, lifestyles, and new ways to spice up bedroom life. Because people can now learn about sex in a discrete and intimate manner, they’re more likely to seek answers to questions they would have otherwise been to embarrassed to ask. The Washington study showed that the average adult is nearly twice as sexually educated than people of the same age and lifestyles a decade ago.

iSex Con: It’s lowered our standards.

We all expected technological advances by 2012, but who knew those advances would actually lower our standards when looking for a match? A survey taken of 30-year-old smartphone owners showed that people who own iPhones have had more partners since purchasing their phones than people with other devices. Just how many more? The average iPhone user has 12.3 partners. The average Android user just 6.1.

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