Monday Quickie: How To Get Her In The Mood

Posted on November 5, 2012 by Quinn

Let’s face it, fellas: When your girl says she’s not in the mood, it means she’s really not in the mood. But don’t take that as a shot to your ego because as it turns out, her not being in the mood is almost completely biological, not emotional (unless you’re in the doghouse, then her lack of libido may be emotional!). Author and sex therapist Ian Kerner explained in his newest book She Comes First that getting her going isn’t as easy as it is for you.

This Monday Quickie takes all day, but stay with us men, because if you follow this ultra-easy process, she’ll be ready to jump in the sack the second you two see each other.

“Women’s libidos are different in that they need to be prompted first,” said Dr. Kerner, which basically tells you that you can’t simply give her the come-and-get-it eyes and expect her to respond the same way you would if the tables were turned.

So how can you prepare your date throughout the day so they’re ready to go without hesitation when you see them? It’s simple: All-day foreplay. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: How To Spice Up Your Halloween

Posted on October 29, 2012 by Quinn

We’re only two days away from Halloween, but many people are still at a loss on how to make this the best October 31st yet. During a holiday known for bringing out the sex appeal in the least expecting people, it’s an important day for singles to break out of their shell and show what they’re made of! If you’re out of ideas on how to showcase your sexy side, our Sexperts have four easy and fast ways to get the kind of attention you want this holiday.

Think about what men are interested in
It’s always a fun time when you and your girlfriend dress up as the different stages of Allie from The Notebook, but the only attention you’re going to attract is that from other women. Think about outfits that would attract not just the eye of a man, but the mind. What are men interested in? What’s a costume that would start a conversation with someone based on the subject matter? Try donning the jersey of a controversial sports star or the outfit of a prominent character in a manly movie. It will draw the attention of the men in the room, and will give you a great starter conversation when you find someone who catches your eye.

Go for quality with your costume
There are very obvious differences between someone who has put thought into what they’re wearing, and someone who has popped over to their closest sex shop and bought one of their $20 fetish outfits. There’s nothing wrong with wearing something you’d find in a generic dress-up section, but buying one out of the package runs the risk of having the same costume as countless other people, and it shows a lack of creativity, which studies show is a vital attraction factor for men. Get ideas from costume shops, but go the DIY route instead of buying one from a box. That way you can put your own personal touch on it, and it won’t look like cheaply made. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: Sex Toys Without The Shopping

Posted on October 15, 2012 by Quinn

We’ve all been in the position where we want to get down and dirty, but don’t have the proper equipment to experience the pleasure we’re craving. Sex is always good, but when you add sex toys to the mix, it can be down-right explosive.

Instead of interrupting your plans of a night in by having to drive to a sex shop, our Sexperts have come up with the 5 best sex toys… that are completely homemade. Save your money (and your time!) and test out our picks for the hottest things to find in your home to spice things up.

Freshen Your Breath
Ever notice that sex shops have a variety of gels and lubes that promise an unparalleled tingling sensation when you go down. The problem? They can cost upwards of $40. No thanks. Our Sexperts have a cheaper alternative, and it’s done with things you probably already have in your home. Chewing a mint or rinsing with mouth wash prior to going down on a partner will give the same tingling sensation as those expensive lotions will.
Dust Yourselves Off
If you have a yet-to-be-used feather duster laying around your house, use it to sensually brush the feathers against their body. Over their chest, down their stomach and their inner thighs are extremely sensitive areas, so having something as soft as a feather stroking those spots will really get them going. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: Grooming On The Go

Posted on October 1, 2012 by Quinn

There’s nothing worse than realizing your significant other is all revved up and ready to go, only to remember that you’ve skipped more than your fair share of shaving days. If you want to get it in but you’re grooming habits have been recently ignored, it’s safe to assume that you’re going to want to do a quick shave downtown. But taking a razor to your most sensitive area takes time and care. If you rush through it too quickly, you can be left with harsh red bumps and ingrown hairs.

So how do you shave your pubic hair on a time limit?

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Monday Quickie: Dress Up Before You Strip Down

Posted on September 24, 2012 by Quinn

It’s a fantasy among almost every man in the world to have a private show put on just for him. After all, why do you think they spend so much money on private dances at the rippers? Men are visual creatures, so a good show for them can be as sexual as intercourse itself.

So what’s our suggestion for this week’s Monday Quickie? Strip!

In a world where everyone is rushing to get to the finish line, it’s becoming a rarity that couples take the extra step to add a little suspense before the main act begins. But with a little lingerie (and a little striptease), your bedroom adventures could become even hotter in an instant.

What To Wear

If you’re planning on putting on a striptease for your partner, a simple teddybear from Victoria’s Secret won’t do– You need layers! If you want to strip for your man, you need to pile on the clothes before you can peel them off.

Here’s what you’ll need to create the perfect outfit to peel off, starting from the outside: Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: Erogenous Zones

Posted on September 17, 2012 by Quinn

The easiest way to get your partner heated up before the main act is simple and straight forward: Hit their erogenous zones.

Men and women have several areas on their body that have more nerves than others, making them extra sensitive and more likely to get your partner’s libido going. If you want the biggest bang for your buck in the foreplay game, you’ve got to start hitting their trigger spots!

Check out what our Sexperts say are the top 5 most sensitive and sexually stimulating areas for men and women.

If you’re turning on your girl…

Collar bone
If you’ve ever kissed your girl on her neck before, you’ve probably noticed that her breath picks up a little when you did. A woman’s collar bone has extremely thin skin, making their nerves more sensitive to a gentle touch, like a kiss or a light breath. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: The Restaurant Restroom Rules

Posted on September 10, 2012 by Quinn

Sex in the bedroom gets boring after a while. After you’ve run through the positions and run out of new things to try from the Kama Sutra, it becomes painfully obvious that the bedroom is still the bedroom, and it’s hard to make that sexy once it has lost its luster. That’s why people branch out! Whether you’re Titanicing in the back of a car or joining the mile high club, doing it outside the bedroom is an exciting way to add the fire back into your sex lives.

According to a 2010 GQ study, the most common place to do it outside of the house is in a restaurant. But for those looking for a little discretion and aren’t interested in attracting attention on their way to the lou, we have a few simple things you need to keep in mind when you’re going for a rest room quickie.

Don’t self-pleasure before hand
A lot of men feel the need to relieve the tension in their bodies before a date, but this can lead to a delayed male orgasm and can cause your quickie to run long. Really long. In order to make sure that your quickie is quick, don’t masturbate for at least a full day prior to your nearly-public romp. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: Staying On Time

Posted on August 27, 2012 by Quinn

We all know that some men have trouble releasing during oral and vaginal sex, but let’s face it: The reason most men don’t have quickies is because they simply get carried away. Even if you have a time limit, once you get going that often goes right out the window. Once things start getting hot and heavy, it’s hard trying to keep an eye on the time!

For those who are having a hard time sticking with a sex schedule, our Sexperts have the perfect solution: Music.

Most people use music simply to block the awkward silence that comes along with sex, but our Sexperts say it’s the perfect way to keep a quickie a quickie!

“Simply limit yourself to three songs. Don’t allow your foreplay to last any longer than the first song, really start getting into the act during the second, and get into a position where you can climax before the end of the third. It’s the perfect way to time your romp without having to pull out the stop watch!” says our Sexpert Arianna.

If you want the perfect playlist for your time in the sack, here are three simple songs that can get you in the mood and keep you on time: Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: Have An Awesome Orgasm

Posted on August 20, 2012 by Quinn

Okay, let’s face it ladies: When you plan out a quickie romp, it’s more for your man’s pleasure than it is for your own. Men have the ability to climax and ejaculate much quicker than women do, so women are often left less pleased than their male counter parts.

Well lassies, it’s time you take back the O– Even if you’re only using 5 minutes of your day to get there.

What can you do to ensure you’re going to get off before your timer does?

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Monday Quickie: How To Make Sure It’s Quick

Posted on August 13, 2012 by Quinn

Your coffee seemed to brew particularly fast, your breakfast cooked quickly, and you were in and out of the shower in a flash. There’s only one thing better than realizing that you have an extra 10 minutes before you have to leave for work– And that’s being able to fit in a quickie in that 10 minutes.

The only problem with quickies? Sometimes they aren’t as quick as you need! Experts say that intending for a sexual encounter to be a specified length of time actually delays both orgasm and ejaculation, as you’re likely to create a mental block which will prevent you from reaching climax and, ultimately, take you from your scheduled quickie to a full-on romp in the sack.

So what can you do to ensure that you’re going to finish fast? Break out the toys! Continue reading →

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