What Do You Wish You Knew About Sex Before Losing Your Virginity?

Posted on January 9, 2013 by Quinn

We all stress over our first time having sex before we actually get around to doing the dirty. Thinking about if it will hurt, how long it will last, what will happen when it’s done– Sexual experiences for the first time are a world of questions that you simply don’t know the answers to.

Well the users of Reddit, a public forum that covers any and every subject under the sun, asked each other what they wish they knew before they had sex for the first time, and their answers ranged from surprising to inspiring to downright accurate.

See what people from all over the world had to say about it!

“There is no perfect moment for the first time so don’t plan it. If you are planning it on a specific time you are under pressure and it won’t meet your expectations by any mean.” -cruzer71

“If you think someone can hear you, they can probably hear you.” -cute_as_corgis

“Muscular endurance. Once your arms start to shake it gets hard to focus.” -Doomskank

“That the person I’m having sex with wants to see me naked and I shouldn’t be having a heart attack about what they think since they already want it.”- wellwhatishername Continue reading →

Turn Your Hookup Into A Piece Of Art: Why Body Paint Is Amazing Foreplay

Posted on November 15, 2012 by Quinn

The University of Miami in Ohio published findings in 2011 that claimed nearly 80% of American adults between 30 and 45 say their sex lives are below average– And that study didn’t even include married people! With such easy access to sex through online dating, people are still finding it difficult to have interesting love lives.

If you’re sick of dressing up and using your same old boring sex toys, our Sexperts have a great new way to keep things exciting in the bedroom, all the while creating something you can enjoy long after the orgasm has subsided: Art.

“The simplicity of having a new texture against your skin, especially in the area surrounding genitals, can be an extremely arousing and pleasurable experience,” said Sandra Kalvans, a sex therapist out of Boulder, Colorado. “That’s why people enjoy things like massage oils and whips– They’re sensations that the skin doesn’t often experience.”

When it comes to your genitals, there’s almost no sensation that can duplicate that of a soft paintbrush and moist paint. Our Sexperts have come up with three new and sensual ways to bring art and sex together.

Paper + Paint + Bodies
Get a large sheet of paper from a hardware or art supply store and lay it on hardwood or tiled flooring. With a large, flat brush paint each others bodies with a non-toxic body paint and lay yourselves on the sheet once you’re covered. Not only will the feeling of the flat bristles make your skin electric, but studies have shown that both men and women find the human figure more desirable when presented as a 2D visual. What’s that mean? Simply put, guys and gals think pictures of bodies are sexier than real-life bodies. So when you see yourselves in the buff as art on the paper, you’re more likely to feel the urge to get it on.

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Sex Searchers Confess Their Most Embarrassing Bedroom Accidents

Posted on November 6, 2012 by Quinn

Everyone wants to think that sex is exactly as it is in the movies: Perfect, flawless, and never, ever embarrassing. Well Sex Searchers, there’s a reason for the expression ‘Never say never!’ Sex mishaps happen to the best of us at the worst time, so we’ve asked our users to open up about the most embarrassing things that have ever happened to them in bed. Get ready to leave behind your bashful sides, because our users are baring it all with their bedroom blunders!

“The last guy I slept with laid me on my band and told me that he’d do all the world. He started pumping and thrusting and sounding like he was really enjoying himself. He ended going from start to finish in about three minutes, never once noticing that he was between my thighs the entire time. He asked me how it was and I couldn’t bring myself to telling him that he never actually entered me.”
-Becca, 31, New Jersey

“I met a guy online last year after breaking up with my boyfriend of three years. My ex was a lot smaller than this new guy but I really didn’t think it would make that much of a difference. Long story short, this new guy ended up tearing my vagina. It wasn’t just embarrassing, it was pretty horrifying– It resulted in a bloody mess and two stitches. Needless to say, I now require a size check before I get it on.”
-Veronica, 28, Fresco

“I’m really into food play, so when I had a girl over last week, we decided to cover her in whip cream and have me lick it off. After downing what we had put on her right breast, I started feeling really sick, so I excused myself to go to the washroom. I ended up being in there for a good 15 minutes when I heard her walk across the room and turn on the lights. That’s when she informed me that she needed to get in the washroom to clean off… Because the whip cream she was covered in was moldy. I was sick for three days and we never did get to finish our night.”
-Bradley, 42, Wisconsin Continue reading →

G-Spot Orgasms Aren’t Just For Women: How To Give Him One

Posted on October 24, 2012 by Quinn

Men spend a majority of their sex lives trying to find new ways to hit their lady’s G-Spot. From different angles to different fingers, the sometimes seemingly unreachable G-Spot is the ultimate destination for any man trying to please his woman. But most couples, the time spent exploring the G-Spot is solely searched within the female. Many people aren’t even aware that men actually have G-Spots of their own– And they’re much easier to find than the females.

Let’s start with the basics of pleasuring the male G-Spot: Where is it? Well fellas, brace yourself, because you’re going to have to get a little invasive if you want to find it: The G-Spot is located is located in the rectum, just above the scrotum. You know that little patch of skin he has between his butt and his ball sack? Directly above that is his G-Spot.

So how to do you reach it? What’s the easiest way to give him an orgasm? Roll up your sleeves ladies, it’s about to get interesting!

The easiest way to give him a G-Spot orgasm is by pressing the knuckle of your forefinger on that space as he’s climaxing in a steady beat. Since the G-Spot swells during climax, it’s easy to excite it without internal stimulation, and the steady beat will give him a surge and release of pleasure, which will make the sensation nothing short of amazing. Continue reading →

Not Packing So Much Heat? Here’s How To Have Sex With A Small Penis

Posted on October 16, 2012 by Quinn

It’s said that the size of a mans package is directly influenced by the size of his ego, and nothing hurts as much as an ego bruised. For men, a small penis can be embarrassing and immobilizing, but with a little work from both parties, and a little slice of humble pie, and great sex with a small penis can be easily achieved.

So what can the guy do to perform to his best abilities? And what can the female do to help him along the way? We have the best practices to make the most of what you’re working with.

Give him some oral love
The more you get him going with oral sex, the harder he’s going to be. When a man gets fully aroused, he has an abundance of blood flowing to his lower region, and the more blood he has down there, the bigger he is. Men can add an additional three quarters of an inch to their normal erection if they’re aroused enough.

Get him to give you oral attention
The goal in intercourse, especially with people you meet online, is orgasm. Unless you’re having sex for the sake of love, then pleasure is mostly likely on the top of your priorities. Have him get you as close as orgasm as possible with his hands and through oral simulation so when you really get going you’re already almost ready to climax, making his job easier than expected.

Take a yoga class
Who knew that there’s a way to make a penis bigger through exercise? Yoga can actually relax a man’s pelvis, which can make a difference in the size of his member. Continue reading →

Stretch Before Reading This Post: We’re Exploring The Best Kama Sutra Positions

Posted on October 15, 2012 by Quinn

With a new season comes new responsibilities, new distractions, and new excuses to not be spending time in the bedroom. Between fall cleaning, preparing for the upcoming holidays, and most likely starting a new quarter at work, it’s easy to lose motivation to stay active in bed.

Now that the weather is getting cold, it’s never been a more important time to keep the flame alive in the bedroom. If you’re not feeling the heat, we have some of the best Kama Sutra positions to try this month! Our friends at So Feminine have give us great ideas on new and exotic positions. They’ll turn you on, stretch you out, and, most importantly, get you off.

The Erotic V
This one doesn’t just give you extreme pleasure; it suits the needs of people who are body-concious. Let’s face it: If you don’t feel sexy, then you’re not going to have a good time during sex. It’s hard to keep your mind on pleasure when you’re concentrating on ever little wiggle and jiggle of your belly. Luckily this position will let you cover the places you’re likely to be most insecure about. With the female sitting on the edge of a waist-high table, face the male and put your knees over his shoulder. Have the man enter while holding the woman by the hips, and have the woman lock her hands around his neck. This will allow for good control while thrusting, and will allow your legs to cover the parts you don’t want them to see. The position plays double duty as a pleasure enduser and a body cover up.

The X-Rated
This may be one of the more difficult positions to get into, but it’s extremely pleasurable for both parties, and it will give him a view to die for. Have the man lay down on the bed, facing up. The female lowers herself onto him in reverse cowboy position and extends her legs so her feet are laying flat on either side of his head. Then she extends her upper body, grabbing each of his feet with her hands, putting her body in the shape of an X. Once the pair is in position, she can either gently rock her body or vigorously thrust her hips on his pelvis.

The Ape
A fair warning ahead of time: Your man has to be a little well-endowed in order to successfully do this position. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: The Restaurant Restroom Rules

Posted on September 10, 2012 by Quinn

Sex in the bedroom gets boring after a while. After you’ve run through the positions and run out of new things to try from the Kama Sutra, it becomes painfully obvious that the bedroom is still the bedroom, and it’s hard to make that sexy once it has lost its luster. That’s why people branch out! Whether you’re Titanicing in the back of a car or joining the mile high club, doing it outside the bedroom is an exciting way to add the fire back into your sex lives.

According to a 2010 GQ study, the most common place to do it outside of the house is in a restaurant. But for those looking for a little discretion and aren’t interested in attracting attention on their way to the lou, we have a few simple things you need to keep in mind when you’re going for a rest room quickie.

Don’t self-pleasure before hand
A lot of men feel the need to relieve the tension in their bodies before a date, but this can lead to a delayed male orgasm and can cause your quickie to run long. Really long. In order to make sure that your quickie is quick, don’t masturbate for at least a full day prior to your nearly-public romp. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: Have An Awesome Orgasm

Posted on August 20, 2012 by Quinn

Okay, let’s face it ladies: When you plan out a quickie romp, it’s more for your man’s pleasure than it is for your own. Men have the ability to climax and ejaculate much quicker than women do, so women are often left less pleased than their male counter parts.

Well lassies, it’s time you take back the O– Even if you’re only using 5 minutes of your day to get there.

What can you do to ensure you’re going to get off before your timer does?

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The Newest Celebrity Diet Craze: Having Sex To Slim Down

Posted on August 8, 2012 by Quinn

Celebrities are notorious for going to extreme lengths to lose weight, but it looks like Hollywood has finally found a diet that can satisfy their weight loss wants and their sexual appetite: Having sex! According to a segment recently shot for the Rachel Ray show, stars are foregoing the gym and turning to the bedroom to shed their unwanted pounds.

Intercourse as a means to burn calories isn’t an extremely shocking revelation; people have been getting down to slim down for years. But it’s how the stars are doing it. Fitness experts have developed a new way to incorporate exercise and sex so you’re getting the best of muscle pain and internal pleasure.

So what should you be doing to maximize your calorie count in bed? Our Sexperts have the three tips you need to follow to get your sweat on while getting your sweat on!

Get your faces apart
Get into missionary position and place your palms on the bed by either side of their head. Then prop your body up on your arms as though you’re doing a push-up, but try to keep your faces apart as much as possible. As you thrust, your body will naturally force you to use your arms to support more of your body weight, and keeping your faces separated will ensure you’re putting as much weight as possible on your arms. Maintaining this position for three minutes burns nearly the same amount of calories as 15 minutes of a fast-pace on the treadmill, and it gets your arms toned! Continue reading →

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