Swing, Swing: Why More People Than Ever Are Joining The Swinger Lifestyle

When most people think of swingers, they think of a time where bell bottoms and Sonny and Cher dominated, but what most people aren’t aware of is that the swinger lifestyle is more popular now than ever.

Screen shot 2012 05 23 at 12.44.18 PM Swing, Swing: Why More People Than Ever Are Joining The Swinger LifestyleIn a recent in-depth study on younger married couples by ABC, the found that nearly half of all Americans under the age of 35 have cheated on their partners. In the last decade alone, an increase of 20% was seen in women who had cheated on their husbands, but even more staggering was the amount of men seeking sexual pleasure outside of their marriage: 45% more men have had extramarital affairs than ones who did 10 years ago.

With so many people cheating on their partners it’s easy to assume that swingers would be on the top of that list, but according to ABC, it’s actually the opposite. Couples who are open to swinging are nearly 90% less likely to have sex outside of their relationship without permission from their partner first.

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Three Keys To Threesome Success

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Having a threesome is the ideal sexual experience for most people. Adding another person to the bedroom is a great way to not only get more pleasure out of your time in bed, but it’s also a great way to strengthen your skills–  What you might not learn from one person, you could learn from another.

But threesomes aren’t all fun and games– If you’re planning on engaging in one with someone you’re in a relationship with, there’s a fine line between what most partners consider acceptable and what they consider too intimate to be comfortable with.

If you’re going to engage in a threesome, there are three rules of thumb  you should always oblige by. Get your pens ready ladies and gents, because Threesome 101 is in session!

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How To Have A Successful Threesome

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Men and women are more alike in their sex lives than one might think. They both have favorite positions, they both know what does and doesn’t turn them off, and they both have hormones that at times are totally uncontrollable. What might surprise you is that even though men and women often desire different things, they almost always have one fantasy in common: A threesome.

Although women are far less likely to admit of their desire to have a menage a trois, take our word for it, they want it just as bad as men do.

But as history has proved time and time again, threesomes can be tricky. You have the task of finding someone who is willing to participate, figuring out how to have sex with an extra person in the mix (it’s harder than it sounds– it’s almost like losing your virginity all over again), and dealing with the emotional issues that come along with seeing your partner sleep with someone else right in front of you.

If you and your match have been using sites like Sex Search to find an adult to add to your bedroom antics, you’ll need to know the golden rules to handling a third.

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