Gwyneth Paltrow Is Trying To Get You Laid

Posted on May 3, 2013 by Woods

Gwyneth Paltrow is a pretty busy woman. She’s an Academy Award winner, a mother, the newly titled sexiest woman in the world, star of Iron Man 3 (which is opening this weekend!), a wife to one of the busiest guys in the music industry Chris Martin, and an active blogger. Now she’s adding one more thing to her list of accomplishments: Pimp.

Alright, maybe ‘pimp’ is an exaggeration. Is she standing on the street corner hailing down guys looking to have a good time? No. But she is going out of her way to try and get you laid!

If you’re a subscriber to Paltrow’s weekly e-mail, GOOP, there’s no doubt that you’re familiar with her usual banter: Pictures of her life to motivate you via jealousy, recipes to keep you skinny (because we all know she hates fat people), and tips on the next-best thing in the fashion industry. But the actress herself claims that this week’s e-mail isn’t for you, “It’s for your other half.”

If you’re looking to get laid tomorrow, Gwennie has a few tips to jump-start your weekend sex success!

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Which Celebrities Have Had Real Sex On Screen? We Have The List!

Posted on January 14, 2013 by Quinn

Nothing is better than watching a movie and getting the surprise of a hot and heavy sex scene. I mean, who doesn’t want unexpected sex somewhere in their day? As exciting as it can be to see two people pretend to have sex, it’s even more thrilling when that fictitious act is all more real than you think.

We’re talking about having those two you’re watching have fake intercourse actually getting it on while filming!

Our Sexsearchers have watched all the rumored did-they-or-didn’t-they sex scenes from mainstream movies, and we’ve come up with a list of flicks that should be considered much more pornographic than they are.

Chloe Sevigny- ‘The Brown Bunny’

There’s no real question to this one: When Chloe Sevigny starred in the movie The Brown Bunny back in 2003, she gave a pretty graphic on-screen blow job to Vincent Gallo, who not only co-stared in the movie with her, but also wrote and directed the film. Gee, we wonder why he wrote that into the scrip…?

Donald Sutherland/ Julie Christie- ‘Don’t Look Now’

It may not look like it now, but back in their heyday Donal and Julie both used to be certified babes. Dirty, horny babes. During their 1973 movie Don’t Look Now, the two actors allegedly pushed the envelope and got down and dirty while filming their love scene. Former Variety editor Peter Bart even went as far as claiming in his book that while he was on set watching the movie, ”It was clear to me they were no longer simply acting: they were fucking on camera.” But Sutherland had something a little different to say. When he was asked about what Bart had to say buy the New York Daily, he said the claims were simply ”not true. None of it. Not the sex. Not him witnessing it.” Our Sexperts sure do thing he isn’t exactly being truthful, but you’ll have to watch the movie to find out for yourself! Continue reading →

What’s The Best Way To Lose Weight To Have A Sex-Ready Body For 2013?

Posted on January 10, 2013 by Quinn

It’s not much of a surprise considering it’s been a consistent trend since resolutions have been around, but losing weight and getting a nice body reigned supreme as the top ambitions of 2013 for North Americans. And where do we feel the pressure to keep up with those resolutions? In the bedroom.

Having to strip down in front of someone new works as a great reminder of how far off track you’ve gotten from your resolution. Between celebratory drinks to ring in the new year, left over holiday food and the routine of getting back to work life (and therefore office donuts) makes it hard to start your resolution off on the right foot, let alone keep it going all year.

SexSearch can easily set you up with new singles to enjoy through the new year, but if you’re self conscious about your body, your fun is only going to go so far. So what can you do to actually achieve your goals of getting your body in the shape you want it to be in?

Our Sexperts have found the best tried and tested methods to getting in shape for long-term success. Quick-fixes are almost always temporary, and once your fad diet ends, so does your small waistline.

If you’re looking to slim down before the summer and keep it off well into 2014, we have the best ways to accomplish your resolution.

Cut out all refined sugars
This one might be the toughest for you with a sweet tooth, but nearly all health and nutritionist specialists say that cutting out sugars is a must for those trying to lose weight. Things like sodas, candy and general ‘junk food’ should be eliminated. Now, we know that for some of you it would feel slightly drastic going cold turkey, so start slow and build your way to zero. First replace your usual soda with its diet alternative, then slowly replace the rest of your fattening treats with fruits and veggies. The cleaner you can eat, the faster you’ll lose the weight. Continue reading →

Add Some Love To Your Holiday Lust

Posted on December 20, 2012 by Quinn

Everyone knows that SexSearch is the best place to go online when they’re looking for fast and fun sex, but who says your fun as to end in the bedroom? A study from the University of Michigan showed that nearly 35% of people who meet online with the sole intention of a sexual hookup end up carrying out a romantic relationship lasting longer than three months.

Even if you’re only looking to get ‘er in and get out of there, it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a little romance along the way! Finding someone that you can enjoy sexually as well as outside the bedroom can offer a variety of experiences that will keep you busy and boost your mood.

If you’re not looking for anything serious but still want to enjoy some time out on the town, our Sexperts have the 6 best ways to do romance without overdoing the cheese.

Get him tickets to a show
Whether it be a concert or a play, seeing live entertainment brings a whole new level of excitement, and since it’s not something you get to do every day it’ll instantly put you both in a good mood. Try getting tickets to a general admissions show; that way you won’t be confined to your seat and you’ll have more opportunity to get up close and personal to each other during the set!
Cook him dinner
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Find out what his favorite foods are and whip up something tasty to enjoy before suggesting a little dessert in the bedroom!
Game on!
There’s nothing a guy likes more than a little friendly competition. Take him to see his favorite sports team and place a bet on who you think will win. Who ever comes out on top gets to choose what you do in the bedroom after the game! Continue reading →

Make Her Time Down South More Pleasurable: How To Properly Prep To Get A BJ

Posted on November 7, 2012 by Quinn

Let’s face it, fellas: Women hate giving blow jobs almost as much as you love getting them. That doesn’t mean that you should feel bad for having her go down there, but it does mean that you should put in an effort to make her experience more enjoyable.

But what would that entail, exactly? Your penis is always going to be your penis, so you can’t exactly trade out tools to make things easier for her. What can you do to keep her as comfortable as possible while rocking your world? Our Sexperts have some tips on how to make her time during a blow job the best it can be.

Know that she may be uncomfortable.
Besides the fact that they’ll have a dick in their mouth with presumably nothing in return for the time being, there are other things that can make blow jobs a general uncomfortable task to most women. Psychologists say that the dislike of doing the task actually comes from the early days of their sexual experiences. When women first start exploring sexuality, they often feel pressured to giving blow jobs because they’re taught that it’s the natural precursor to sex. This makes women subconsciously associate giving head with being powerless, which we don’t need to tell you is an uncomfortable feeling while in bed with someone. What’s the best way to overcome this? Let her know she doesn’t have to! Sure it may be giving her an easy way out, but research shows that women are actually more inclined to perform oral sex if they’re told that it’s not expected.

Clean yourself. Well.
Think about holding someone’s hand during the summer months. Your palms get sweaty, the clamminess gets uncomfortable, and eventually you’re going to start producing a weird scent from all that moisture. That’s exactly what happens to your member when it’s spending all day between your legs inside that sleeping bag you call underwear. Continue reading →

Want To Win Her Trust? Give Her A Hug

Posted on October 18, 2012 by Quinn

Going from chatting online to starting a sexual relationship can be difficult for some people. Many studies have shown that it’s difficult to create a sense of trust and security with someone you’re only familiar with online, which can strongly hinder your connection inside the bedroom. A different study, conducted by the University of Toronto in Ontario, showed that the average length of time between meeting up with someone you met on a hookup site like Sex Search and moving things to the bedroom is a mere 40-55 minutes, which means you have less than an hour to create an environment that allows them to feel comfortable enough with you to let loose.

When you’re looking for sex online, chances are you want to try some things out of the realm of regular bedroom activity. So what can you do for your date to be comfortable enough to trust you off the bat? Hug her. Seriously.

A new study from the University of North Carolina recently took a look at the effects of hugging between 38 pairs, and the conclusion proves that chemistry between people can have more to do with physical contact than with a mental connection.

It was found that hugging someone for 20 seconds releases an increased amount of oxytocin from the brain, a hormone that stimulates bonding and attraction. The researchers realized that not only did the reaction have a calming effect on the body (decreasing the levels of cortisol, a stress hormone, in both the male and female partners), but that women were more responsive and open to requests and suggestions made by the men. Continue reading →

Sexting For The Shy: How To Break Out Of Your Timid Bubble And Get Wild With Your Texting

Posted on October 17, 2012 by Quinn

Imagine sitting at work, hearing your phone vibrate on your desk, checking your messages and reading the most mind-blowing, erection-inducing, heart-rate-increasing message you’ve ever gotten. No warning, no reason– Simply a message letting you know that someone has you on their mind in the raunchiest way possible.

Sexting can take your love life to the next level. Instead of enjoying the heat only when you’re in the moment, you can tease and please whoever you want, from wherever you want, whenever you want. But for those of us untrained in the world of dirty-talk, sexting can feel more like a chore than a luxury, and the task can be even more daunting if you’re shy.

Like most activities, sexting can be broken down into categories that you can follow to ensure that you’re having a good time, not a challenging one.

Know your audience
You wouldn’t tell a drug joke to a police officer, and you wouldn’t tell your boss about how your ‘flu’ was actually a two-day hang over. There’s always a line between appropriate and inappropriate when it comes to different people, so take a minute to think about who you’re targeting your sext to before you hit ‘send’. What do they like in bed? Are they kinky enough to send what you’re really thinking? Are they even the kind of person who would want to receive a sexually driven text? Think about who you’re planning on digitally seducing before you go for it.

What’s your goal?
So you know you want to send them a sext, but what do you want to come of it? Are you looking to start a steamy conversation, or do you want to get them so riled up that they’ll make a plan to head to your place as soon as they’re available? Think about what you want the outcome to be before you start the chat. If you want to keep it digital, start your convo with a question. “Do you know what I was just thinking about” is a simple and effective way to gain their attention. When they respond with the inevitable “What?”, you can turn up the heat. “What it would be like to lick honey all over your naked body,” makes things instantly hot and is almost impossible to not promptly respond to. On the other side, if you’re looking for your sext to lead to action a little more personal, you can start the conversation with a suggestion instead of a thought. “I just made a little trip to the grocery store and picked up honey. Come by my place and help me get good use out of them.” It’s hot, it’s direct, and it’s much more appealing to the recipient than the standard “Are you free to hookup tonight?” text. Continue reading →

Utilize Your Lube: New Ways To Use An Old Favorite

Posted on October 9, 2012 by Quinn

It’s the one thing you should always have by your bedside. Whether it’s to make foreplay more playful or to make sex more smooth, a good lubricant is one of the key ingredients to good sex. But if all you’re using it for is to make things glide a little easier, then you’re not using it to it’s fullest abilities!

Our Sexperts have thought of some fun, new and creative ways to use lube to have more fun while in the sack. Check out their 8 best ways to remix your lube use!

Lube Your Boobs
Let’s face it, there are two kinds of straight guys in the world: Boob guys and butt guys. If your man is a boob guy, why not give him a little extra slippery surprise on his favorite body part? Put a thin, water-based lube on your chest and let direct him to glide his penis between your breasts. It will give him a similar sensation of penetration, but with a much more appealing visual.
Visit The Other Side Of The Condom
A lot of people use a lubricant in addition to condoms for that extra smooth sensation, but most couples fail to explore what may be the best combination of lube and condoms ever invented: Lube on the other side. Instead of just putting lube on the outside of the condom, place a dime-sized amount on the inside of the rubber to give him extra pleasure. Continue reading →

Anal Sex 101: What Porn Is Teaching You Right And Wrong About Backdoor Action

Posted on August 22, 2012 by Quinn

One of the most common mistakes people make in the bedroom is try to emulate the moves and actions they see in porn. Although watching others in sexual situations can be an extremely educational way to get new ideas for positions and stimulants you otherwise would have never been introduced to, porn is by no means a place to learn how to safely and properly explore those positions.

If you’re thinking about trying anal sex for the first time, you can’t simply cruise a porn site for a few backdoor videos and assume you’re good to go. You need preparation, education, and most importantly, the right products to help you along.

Our Sexperts have the best tips and tricks you need before trying anal for the first time.

Before You Can Play, You Need The Equipment

Just as one can’t jump into a pool without first learning how to swim, one can’t start having anal sex until they’re fully prepared. The first thing you need to do is head to an adult toy store and get the essentials: Continue reading →

The Opposite Of ED: Why You Can’t Ejaculate

Posted on August 15, 2012 by Quinn

I have trouble ejaculating while having sex or getting head. I’ve never had a problem getting or maintaining an erection, but I can’t seem to climax. I get the feeling that I’ll be at the point of cumming, but the feeling always ends up just subsiding after a while. I’m only 25, so I don’t see why this keeps happening?

It’s not uncommon for our Sexperts to be asked about ejaculation problems, but often our questions are regarding doing it too quickly, not doing it too late. The fact of the matter is, delayed ejaculation is a problem that tens of thousands of men in America alone face every day, and as any of them can tell you, it’s a problem that can be just as embarrassing as having the opposite issue.

So what are the causes? What are the solutions? Is it an actual problem, or is it just an annoyance? Our Sexperts have all the answers you want to know about delayed ejaculation.

What’s the cause?

There are three different main causes for anorgasmia (AKA delayed ejaculation): Age, medication, and yourself.

Let’s go through them one by one.

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