It’s the ultimate dream for anyone looking to have sex: Getting laid with no strings attached and no commitments for the future. A pump ‘em and dump ‘em scenario that allows you to get what you’re looking for without all the mess of having to try and develop a relationship afterwards.
That’s why one night stands are so sought after by the single community! You get to get in, get off, and get out without worrying about hurting anyone’s feelings.
When it comes to one night stands, how do you know who’s game? How do you find someone to have one with? How do you get it done?
Spotting People Who Are DTF
When you go to a bar or sign up for an online hookup site like Sex Search, the ones who are most likely to go home with you aren’t always the easiest to spot. The good news is there are signs! Look for people who are in big groups of people of the same sex. Sure people have friends of the opposite sex, but studies show that people of both sexes are 85% more likely to use a wing-man of the same sex, which means there’s a bigger chance of them looking to get laid if they’re with the same gender.
Making The Approach
So you’ve located someone who looks like they’re on the same mission as you are. They’re open, they look socialable, and they’re wearing something a little more than revealing. The most important thing to remember is they still want to be treated respectfully. They’re a one night stand, not a hooker. Approach them like you would any one else in the bar: Offer to get them a drink, pay them a compliment, introduce yourself… Do something to break the ice and get the conversation going.
Get Them Home
The easiest way to get a one night stand to go home with you is by being honest! Let them know you think the two of you would have a good time if you spent the rest of the night at your place, and offer to have them over. By suggesting you’ll be sure to order them a cab so they’re home by morning is a great way of insuring they know full well that you’re only intending this to be for the night.
The one night stand is popular for a reason: It gives you both what you want and keeps you happy while doing so! Get online, get to the bar, get anywhere just as long as you get out and get laid!