When you’re looking for easy action, it’s probably safe to say that you’re going to try and get it on with whoever is willing and able. The monogamist game is for people looking for a relationship, but Sex Searchers aren’t looking for a future finance– They’re looking for fun!

If you’re going to try and have multiple sexual partners on the go, there are a few juggling guidelines one should follow in order to have a successful life of collecting belt notches.

Always, always, always ask about their sexual health situation

Whether you’ve had a clean slate your entire life or you’ve had a brush with an unfortunate burning sensation, protecting yourself from future STD’s isn’t just important to your own sex life, it’s important to those you’re planning on sleeping with as well. You may be planning on sleeping with everyone possible, but the people you’re sleeping with may only be planning on sleeping with you, and it’s your responsibility to protect them, as well. Find out if the people you’re sleeping with have any STDs or STIs so you can prevent spreading them.

Know their expectations

While you’re busy sleeping with everyone possible, they may be falling madly in love with you– and that will cause a problem. Make sure you’re on the same page to prevent them from getting hurt and to prevent you from attracting unwanted and unnecessary drama.

Keep a schedule

It may be just sex, but that means a lot to some people. To insure you don’t have to make the “I know we’re supposed to be meeting in five minutes but I have to cancel because I forgot I had other plans” call, keep a schedule! It will help you keep your dates clear, and will let you see when you have some free space to add in another romp!

Don’t mention it!

The chances of the people you’re sleeping with wanting to hear about about someone else you’re sleeping with is slim to none. Treat your sexual adventures like an ex– If you’re with someone else, they don’t want to hear about it! Allow them to live with the illusion that they’re your current one-and-only to avoid hurting any feelings and, more importantly, offending them to the point that they no longer want to sleep with you.

Suggest a threesome

It’s worth a try!