If you’re not aware yet, May is National Masturbation Month! A time to explore your body strictly for the purpose of pleasure and to further your own sexual knowledge. Many people are so concentrated on what they can do to improve the sexual experience for their partner that they ignore how their own bodies work.
What does your body respond best to? What does it like? What doesn’t it like? What can make you orgasm? What can help you last longer in bed? Listening to your body is the best way to have better orgasms, and the only way to fully find the answers to those crucial questions is to explore yourself!
In honor of May being Masturbation Month, we thought we’d share four new ways for guys and gals to enjoy a little solo sex!
Masturbation for men
The American Pie
Nothing feels quite as good as the inside of a woman, but men are usually too busy trying to make her have a good time that they forget about themselves in the process. By now you probably know which moves they like the best, but which ones do you enjoy? What speeds feel the best, and which are you doing just because your partner thinks it feels best? Instead of finding that out while you’re in bed, find out before hand! Take a tip from one of the most popular comedies of the early 2000′s- American Pie. The scene where Jim was caught jerking off into a pie may have been good for laughs, but it was even better for the lives of horny men everywhere. Most pies actually have the same texture and density as a woman, so jerking off American Pie-style is great practice to see what you like in bed, and to get off while doing so!
J-E-T-S Jets! Jets! Jets!
Alright, so that’s a sports cheer– That doesn’t mean we can’t apply it to masturbation! Women have been using the jets in jacuzzis and hot tubs as a method to jerk off with for decades, but now it’s your turn. Give yourself a little underwater pleasure while sitting in front of a jet. Slightly moving your body so the pressure moves around your shaft and scrotum will give you a whole new level of self-pleasure!
Masturbation for women
The Climate Change
Did you know that women are more likely to have an orgasm with a warming condom than a regular condom? It’s because the nerves in the clitoris are stimulated differently when they’re exposed to different temperatures. And what changes temperature faster than a shower?! Don’t just use the shower head to massage your genitals, use it to give you an explosive experience. Change the temperature slightly from warm to cool as the water is hitting your privates to have an orgasm like no other.
A Public Performance
Having sex in public has actually proven to be more satisfying for both men and women. The adrenaline your brain produces works with your libido to give you a more fulfilling experience and, in turn, a stronger orgasm. Next time you’re headed to somewhere public, whether it be a business meeting, a trip to the grocery store or to dinner with a date, throw on a pair of vibrating panties! You’ll be able to get the benefits of sex in public without having the fear of getting caught– And it’ll make whatever you’re doing all the more fun!
There’s always an excuse to enjoy masturbation, but now that there’s a month dedicated to it, you should make it your first priority to get to know your body– Enjoy yourself and celebrate May the proper way!