Alright, so let’s face it: We don’t always have time for sex. Between the grooming and buying protective products, it’s likely that you’d end up preparing for the event for longer than you actually do the act, and in a world that’s consistently busy, we don’t always have the time we’d like to get down and dirty.

But who says you have to have sex to be satisfied?!

This weeks Monday Quickie is all about oral and the new quick tip to give a perfect blow job.

First thing’s first: Lubrication! Nothing is worse than a bad blow job, so it only makes sense that nothing is better than a wet one, right? Sex shops and drug stores have endless options for water based flavored lubricants that allow for an ultra smooth experience with no bad aftertaste.

Now that you’re all slippery and ready to go, you need the trick to a perfect blow job: Your hands!

Most men and women picture oral sex on a man solely with the use of a mouth, but our Sexperts have found that not only do men have an easier time climaxing when hands are involved, but their brains actually release more of the chemical that makes them feel sexual pleasure into their bodies.

So what’s the trick to it? Stroking the shaft in the opposite direction as your mouth is going. Place your mouth around the head of his penis and wrap your hand around the shaft. As you bring your mouth upwards on his penis, slide your hand firmly downwards. The constant motion will give him a sense of pleasure that your average blow job could never compete with!

If you have a request for next week’s Monday Quickie, let our Sexperts know!