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Keep The Heat In Your Long Distance Relationship This Winter

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Chances are if you met your adult friend online, there are going to be times that the two of you have to maintain a long distance relationship.

If you’re faced with being hours apart every day, you need to put in extra effort to make your relationship work.

“Some separation can be good for a relationship because you get the chance to miss each other, but, no matter how much you’re in love, it’s important to do some creative stuff to stay connected,” says therapist and author of The Commuter Marriage: Keep Your Relationship Close While You’re Far Apart, Tina Tessina.

According to Tessina, you can’t let long distance relationships develop naturally the way you would a normal relationship, as you don’t have the physical interaction to stimulate your thoughts and feelings towards each other.

So how do you keep things hot when it’s cold and you’re alone? Check out Sex Search’s tips for keeping your flame alive!

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From Those Who Play Hard-To-Get To Those Who Can’t Help But Cling: How Do You Break The Mold?

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At Sex Search, we get a lot of reader e-mails asking for help with their relationship troubles, and we’ve started to see a surprising trend: People seem to be having trouble with clingers and people who play hard-to-get, two personality types that may seem like polar opposites, but that have a lot more in common than you’d think.

When you break down an adult relationship, there are 4 main categories you can fit it under: Chemistry, compatibility, attraction, and availability. The first three you develop over time, but your partner’s availability is something that will be evident from the start, and it will likely set the tone of a relationship.

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Your Sex Questions Answered

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Here at Sex Search, we want to insure that your next sexual experience isn’t only enjoyable, but it’s stress-free. We know it’s hard to concentrate on the feeling when you have the science behind it on your mind, so we thought we’d answer all those confusing sex questions you’ve been asking so you can clear your mind and get back to doing what you love doing most– Getting down and dirty!
I’ve heard that you can get STD’s even when you have a condom on. Is that true?

Unfortunately, yes. Sometimes even your safest precautions aren’t enough to protect you from the much dreaded STD’s and STI’s. Things like genital warts won’t be covered with a condom, which can transfer to you with contact. What’s your best bet? There are two roads you can take when trying to keep yourself safe against STD’s: 1) Abstinence, which isn’t the funnest option, and 2) Waiting until there’s no flair-up to have sex. Now keep in mind that STD’s can still get transferred when they’re inflamed, but you’re 90% less likely to contract one while they aren’t.

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Cure Your Premature Problems Naturally

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Women tend to have more insecurities than men. Things like weight issues, career insecurities, and a general low self-confidence are three times as likely to plague women than they are men. Even though women have more insecurities, men have one that acts as a bigger stress conductor than anything women have to deal with– Premature ejaculation. Not only can it be an embarrassing problem to struggle with, but it also restricts you from feeling the full extent of sexual pleasure.

If you thought you were the only guy who had these kinds of troubles during sex, you couldn’t be more wrong! The University of Chicago has a section in their National Health And Social Life Survey that explores premature ejaculation, and they discovered that 30% of adult men between 18 and 29, 32% between 30 and 39, 28% between 40 and 49, and 31% between 50 and 59 suffer from the problem. That’s a lot of men getting way too excited, way too fast.

Widely known options as to how to fix the on-going issue with men usually comes down to medication, but new studies done by a group of Doctors in San Fransisco say that’s not the case anymore. Dr. Edward Laumann, the man who spearheaded the NHSLS study, says that there’s may things men can do to extend their sexual experiences without having to get a prescription.

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Ways To Get Yourself Rejected

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As an adult, you know that if you touch a stove top while it’s on, you’re going to get burnt, which is why you know not to touch them. How is this relevant to online dating? Once you know what people don’t want to see, you’ll know exactly what to avoid in your inaugural message to prospective dates.

There are countless advice columns on what you should do when you send out your first message online, but very few look into what you shouldn’t do. Before you log in to Sex Search and start your dating journey, take a look at things you don’t want to do when sending that ever important first message.

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Give Up On Your Acting Dreams, Ladies: Men Know You’re Faking It

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Well ladies, the cat’s out of the bag. According to a study done by the University of Indiana, 85% of men believe they can tell when their sexual partners are faking an orgasm, while only 46% of women actually admitted to faking it. Looks like a little case of the girl who cried wolf!

That’s a difference of 20% in orgasmic confusion in the bedroom.

“It shows a lack of communication between partners,” says the study’s co-author Debby Herbinick. “Either by women faking it, or by men not asking or noticing if their partner climaxed.”

6000 people between age 18 and age 94 participated in the study that consisted of questions about sexual health, perceptions, and behaviors. Not only did the research, which was funded by Trojan condoms, include the oldest participants in a sex study, but it was also the largest national sex study ever conducted in North America, which is why Herbinick says it’s likely to be one of the most accurate ones ever done.

The last time a study this comprehensive was done was almost 20 years ago in 1994. At the time, Dr. Alfred Kiney and his team noted several sexual trends, and when compared with the new study, you can see how those trends have changed over time.

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Porn Can Help You With Orgasm Troubles

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It’s inevitable that during your sexually active life, you’re going to have times where it’s difficult for you to reach climax. It doesn’t mean you’re not enjoying the sex you’re having, it simply means your body isn’t reacting to your enjoyment as you wished it would.

If you’re having a hard time orgasming, the fix won’t be found in your medicine cabinet– It’s found on your Internet! Believe it or not, porn is the best cure for failing to orgasm.

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How To Have A Successful Threesome

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Men and women are more alike in their sex lives than one might think. They both have favorite positions, they both know what does and doesn’t turn them off, and they both have hormones that at times are totally uncontrollable. What might surprise you is that even though men and women often desire different things, they almost always have one fantasy in common: A threesome.

Although women are far less likely to admit of their desire to have a menage a trois, take our word for it, they want it just as bad as men do.

But as history has proved time and time again, threesomes can be tricky. You have the task of finding someone who is willing to participate, figuring out how to have sex with an extra person in the mix (it’s harder than it sounds– it’s almost like losing your virginity all over again), and dealing with the emotional issues that come along with seeing your partner sleep with someone else right in front of you.

If you and your match have been using sites like Sex Search to find an adult to add to your bedroom antics, you’ll need to know the golden rules to handling a third.

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Three Ways You’re Cock Blocking Your Orgasm

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People have many different reasons for having sex: You’re horny, you’re in love, it’s cold in your apartment and you’re too cheap to turn up your heat… Whatever your reason is, the end goal is probably unanimous- the big O.

As if it wasn’t hard enough to reach orgasm to begin with, there’s new obstacles showing up daily to prevent you from achieving it. Factors like weight, diet and stress are just a few of the many reasons you could have a hard time climaxing.

If you’re having trouble getting to the end point while having sex, these three reasons are probably the root cause

Did I pick up milk at the store? Was I supposed to call Susie after work? I feel like I’m forgetting someone’s birthday…

Having an adult relationship is stressful enough, but when you add all the other daily distractions of your life, it’s almost as much of a burden as it is a blessing. Not having the ability to turn off your mind and forget about anything is one of the biggest blockers when it comes to your orgasm.

It’s been 10 minutes… How much longer will this go on for?

From the moment you start having sex, most of your thoughts are centered around when you’re going to climax. When you’re concentrating so much on the destination you forget to enjoy the journey, which makes it nearly impossible to reach orgasm. Instead of thinking about if or when you’re going to have the big O, try to enjoy the act itself!

I look disgusting like this…

Trust me, the person you’re sleeping with is putting NO thought into those 5 extra pounds you’ve been carrying around lately! If you’re thinking about how you look, you’re not only wasting your time, but you’re distracting yourself from having a great time in bed.

Next time you get in the sack, clear your mind first! Having it cluttered leaves very little room to enjoy a climax.

Grab Your Orange And Black Rubbers!

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One of the highest times for births during the year are the weeks surrounding August 1st. Now, a little simple math can tell us that nine months prior to that date is no other day than Halloween!

The sexy costumes, the exposure of skin, the fact that as an adult you get to forget your worries for a day and dress up however you wish– It makes a recipe for horny people and a lot of sex!

If you’re looking to hookup this Halloween, you’ll need to do two things: Stay safe and be creative!

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According to a study done by Screamers, a popular haunted house in New York City, published a study they did on the pictures of men and women in their haunted house. Usually it’s couples going through, and during the scariest part of the experience, a hidden camera captures the reactions of couples who are brave enough to journey through.

The study revealed that men with unique costumes are more likely to have a girl lean towards them when scared then men with average or no costumes.

Out of 300 couples, 20 guys were in street clothes and only three of those 20 had their girls cling to them when scared. 80 were characters from formerly popular movies (like Austin Powers and Borat), 20 of which had girls turn towards then, and over 60 guys had original and unique costumes, 45 of which had girls glued to their arms. The rest of the guys had various other costumes, all of which had a better physical reaction from women when scared when they were more unique than not.

If you’re looking to hook up for Halloween, get creative! Something as simple as gluing various numbers to yourself and being ‘a guy you can count on’ is surely to get you more action than your recycled Ghostbusters costume. Just don’t forget to wrap your candy before giving it away! You don’t want a late treat come August.