Most people looking for sex online don’t put too much thought into setting the stage for a good date, but chances are you’ll be meeting your partner in a public place, so preparing yourself for a date is essential to making sure you’re going to seal the deal.

What can you do to make sure that your first meeting goes off without a hitch? Talk! Studies from the University of Washington show that the better the conversation two people have, the better the chemistry will be between them. And we all know that chemistry leads to a great time in bed!

Having a list of topics to talk about going into the date won’t just keep the night flowing smoothly, it will keep you confident should the conversation run flat. Check out what our Sexperts think are the 5 best conversation starters to avoid awkward silences on a first date:

1. “What’s your newest interest?”

In today’s ever changing work, it seems like people are picking up new hobbies almost weekly. Whether it was an idea that sparked from Pinterest or a celebrity started a new fashion trend, fads have come and gone faster than lightening this year. By simply asking what their newest interest is, you’re opening the door to a conversation about something they enjoy. Experts say this helps them mentally associate your conversation with a comfortable familiarity, making them more likely to relax in your presence. Continue reading →