You’re home alone, you’re getting hot and heavy, and you’re ready to have a good time. After taking your time pleasing your man orally, it’s only naturally to assume that he’ll be doing the same thing in return. But let’s be serious here– That doesn’t happen. Once you’ve gotten your man going, there’s almost no slowing him down on his way to he home plate.

The problem with that is you want him to slow down! Letting him skip foreplay is like trying to go down a water slide before someone has turned the faucet on.

Our Sexperts know that it can be a little awkward trying to ask your man to do specifics in bed, so we have four easy ways to gently let your man know what you want to ensure you get it!

“I love when you take your time doing that– It feels so good.”
Nothing boosts a guy’s ego than letting him know you’re enjoying what he’s doing, and if you’re smart, you can use that little ego stroke to your advantage! Instead of just telling him that it feels good, tell him how much you like it when he takes his time doing it. As he keeps going, play it up a little. The more you tell him you like it, the more he’ll be inclined to continue performing without the rush.  Continue reading →