G-Spot Orgasms Aren’t Just For Women: How To Give Him One

Posted on October 24, 2012 by Quinn

Men spend a majority of their sex lives trying to find new ways to hit their lady’s G-Spot. From different angles to different fingers, the sometimes seemingly unreachable G-Spot is the ultimate destination for any man trying to please his woman. But most couples, the time spent exploring the G-Spot is solely searched within the female. Many people aren’t even aware that men actually have G-Spots of their own– And they’re much easier to find than the females.

Let’s start with the basics of pleasuring the male G-Spot: Where is it? Well fellas, brace yourself, because you’re going to have to get a little invasive if you want to find it: The G-Spot is located is located in the rectum, just above the scrotum. You know that little patch of skin he has between his butt and his ball sack? Directly above that is his G-Spot.

So how to do you reach it? What’s the easiest way to give him an orgasm? Roll up your sleeves ladies, it’s about to get interesting!

The easiest way to give him a G-Spot orgasm is by pressing the knuckle of your forefinger on that space as he’s climaxing in a steady beat. Since the G-Spot swells during climax, it’s easy to excite it without internal stimulation, and the steady beat will give him a surge and release of pleasure, which will make the sensation nothing short of amazing. Continue reading →

Stretch Before Reading This Post: We’re Exploring The Best Kama Sutra Positions

Posted on October 15, 2012 by Quinn

With a new season comes new responsibilities, new distractions, and new excuses to not be spending time in the bedroom. Between fall cleaning, preparing for the upcoming holidays, and most likely starting a new quarter at work, it’s easy to lose motivation to stay active in bed.

Now that the weather is getting cold, it’s never been a more important time to keep the flame alive in the bedroom. If you’re not feeling the heat, we have some of the best Kama Sutra positions to try this month! Our friends at So Feminine have give us great ideas on new and exotic positions. They’ll turn you on, stretch you out, and, most importantly, get you off.

The Erotic V
This one doesn’t just give you extreme pleasure; it suits the needs of people who are body-concious. Let’s face it: If you don’t feel sexy, then you’re not going to have a good time during sex. It’s hard to keep your mind on pleasure when you’re concentrating on ever little wiggle and jiggle of your belly. Luckily this position will let you cover the places you’re likely to be most insecure about. With the female sitting on the edge of a waist-high table, face the male and put your knees over his shoulder. Have the man enter while holding the woman by the hips, and have the woman lock her hands around his neck. This will allow for good control while thrusting, and will allow your legs to cover the parts you don’t want them to see. The position plays double duty as a pleasure enduser and a body cover up.

The X-Rated
This may be one of the more difficult positions to get into, but it’s extremely pleasurable for both parties, and it will give him a view to die for. Have the man lay down on the bed, facing up. The female lowers herself onto him in reverse cowboy position and extends her legs so her feet are laying flat on either side of his head. Then she extends her upper body, grabbing each of his feet with her hands, putting her body in the shape of an X. Once the pair is in position, she can either gently rock her body or vigorously thrust her hips on his pelvis.

The Ape
A fair warning ahead of time: Your man has to be a little well-endowed in order to successfully do this position. Continue reading →

This Post Is For The Ladies: How To Get Your Man To Do What You Like In Bed

Posted on September 13, 2012 by Quinn

You’re home alone, you’re getting hot and heavy, and you’re ready to have a good time. After taking your time pleasing your man orally, it’s only naturally to assume that he’ll be doing the same thing in return. But let’s be serious here– That doesn’t happen. Once you’ve gotten your man going, there’s almost no slowing him down on his way to he home plate.

The problem with that is you want him to slow down! Letting him skip foreplay is like trying to go down a water slide before someone has turned the faucet on.

Our Sexperts know that it can be a little awkward trying to ask your man to do specifics in bed, so we have four easy ways to gently let your man know what you want to ensure you get it!

“I love when you take your time doing that– It feels so good.”
Nothing boosts a guy’s ego than letting him know you’re enjoying what he’s doing, and if you’re smart, you can use that little ego stroke to your advantage! Instead of just telling him that it feels good, tell him how much you like it when he takes his time doing it. As he keeps going, play it up a little. The more you tell him you like it, the more he’ll be inclined to continue performing without the rush. Continue reading →

Embarrassing Questions: How To Give A Blow Job When He Has Foreskin

Posted on August 31, 2012 by Quinn

Some things are just too embarrassing to talk about with your friends. How to control your downstairs scent, what to do when you can’t get hard, when you should pull out if you’re having sex without a condom… There are countless questions you simply don’t want to have to ask your friends, and our Sexperts are going to tackle them, one by one. Today’s subject? Giving your first blow-job to an uncircumcised penis.

Although most people do have some education on how to deal with foreskin from ninth grade sex-ed classes, that’s not exactly sufficient information if you’re planning on being face-to-face with one. Sure your gym teacher may have demonstrated how to clean it with a banana, but chances are you don’t have anyone in your life who’s willing to demonstrate the proper way to perform oral sex on one.

Find out what our Sexperts consider the best tips for dealing with foreskin for the first time:

That of which we call a rose by any other word would smell as sweet…
No, we’re not telling you to go smell it, but we are telling you that a penis with foreskin is the exact same as every other penis you’re used to. Once you get past that extra piece of skin, it’s smooth sailing. Don’t be intimidated! Continue reading →

How To Get A One Night Stand

Posted on February 3, 2012 by Woods

It’s the ultimate dream for anyone looking to have sex: Getting laid with no strings attached and no commitments for the future. A pump ‘em and dump ‘em scenario that allows you to get what you’re looking for without all the mess of having to try and develop a relationship afterwards.

That’s why one night stands are so sought after by the single community! You get to get in, get off, and get out without worrying about hurting anyone’s feelings.

When it comes to one night stands, how do you know who’s game? How do you find someone to have one with? How do you get it done?

Spotting People Who Are DTF

When you go to a bar or sign up for an online hookup site like Sex Search, the ones who are most likely to go home with you aren’t always the easiest to spot. The good news is there are signs! Look for people who are in big groups of people of the same sex. Sure people have friends of the opposite sex, but studies show that people of both sexes are 85% more likely to use a wing-man of the same sex, which means there’s a bigger chance of them looking to get laid if they’re with the same gender.

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