The Kim Kardashian/ Ray J sext tape may be one of the most famous celebrity sex tapes of all time, but unlike the Pam/ Tommy and Paris/ Whoeverthatguywas tapes, Kim’s tape doesn’t act as a raw how-to for the bedroom. In fact, experts say that Kim makes some of the most common mistakes that females make in the bedroom.

With so much talk surrounding the tabloid princess and her now infamous tape, it’s only natural for people to be curious enough to see what all the fuss is about. So why not turn your porn watching pleasure into a cautionary tale? Instead of just watching the video to see what Kim is willing to do in the sack, our Sexperts have pointed out the top three things for you to see what not to do while having sex.

Ditch The ‘Baby, Baby, Baby’ Talk

When you’re having sex, your vocabulary is rarely a main concern. Between the overwhelming physical sensations you’re experiencing and the mental nirvana your mind is preoccupied with, it’s easy to see why people get carried away using the same phrases over and over again in bed. Things like “Oh my god,” “Holy fuck!” and several other claims of elation now have a common place in the bedroom, but there’s still one that’s so tabu that it’s widely considered a turn off for men, and Kim uses it a lot. So what’s the magic word that can turn him off as quickly as you’ve turned him on? ‘Baby’. A survey conducted by GQ Magazine showed that not only do 64% of men say they’d prefer a woman not call him baby in bed, but 27% of them actually said it’s one of the least sexy things a woman could do. Many men feel that being given the ‘baby’ title is emasculating, and the video has Kim saying it time and time again. When you’re having sex, make sure you’re not turning him off while trying to turn him on. Be cautious of what you’re saying! Continue reading →