So you finally found someone online that you actually want to keep around for a little bit. You start getting together more, start having sex on a consistent basis, and before you know it, things start to cool down in the bedroom. When you start to get into a routine with a new partner, it’s hard to keep things fresh in the bedroom.

How do you make sure you’re not making things dull? What can you do to freshen things up if you’ve been with your partner for awhile?

Our Sexperts have found 5 simple and effective tips that you can do in the bedroom to make sure that your passion remains high.

1. Don’t dim the lights
   Everyone is more confident in bed when the lights are off. You don’t have to worry about them seeing the cellulite on your thighs, the extra chub around your belly, the way your boobs awkwardly bounce every time you thrust… There are countless reasons why lights out is better for your ego– But it’s not necessarily better for his eyes. GQ Magazine found in a 2010 survey that nearly 80% of their male readers listed  doggy style as their favorite sex position. Why? Because men use visuals as a stimulant during intercourse! That’s why keeping the lights on during sex is so hot for men. It’s an act they’re not used to experiencing, and it allows them to admire every part of your body (even the parts you don’t like!). Next time the two of you are in the bedroom, keep the lights turned on. It’ll ensure that you’re keeping him turned on as well. Continue reading →