Don’t Get Te’O'd: How To Know If You’re Talking To Real People Online

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In a cartoon published in New York Magazine in October 1993, two dogs sat at computers where one looks at the other and says, “On the Internet, no one knows you’re a dog.”

If you haven’t heard the explosive news of university football all-star Manti Te’O and his fake dead girlfriend by now, then you’re behind on the times. To make a long story short, a top rated university could-be-an-NFLer football player was duped into thinking that his girlfriend (who he became famous for kicking ass in games in honor of that girlfriend after she died of leukemia in September) was a loving Stanford student for the two years of their relationship when, in reality, she didn’t exist at all. As it stands right now, it looks as though a male friend/fan of Te’O's may have been pretending to be his online girlfriend the entire time, creating an elaborate hoax that roped him into a fake relationship.

How can you protect yourself from getting duped into talking to someone who isn’t who they say they are? Our Sexperts have compiled the biggest red flags for people who are involved in online relationships:

1. Always, always Skype.
Experts say that if they’re not willing to Skypecomputer dating there’s likely something they’re trying to hide, especially if they’ve already sent you photos. “When someone sends you photos but is unwilling to video chat, it’s likely they’re not the people they’re claiming to be. Not having a web cam is not a valid reason: In 2013, everyone has access to the ability to video chat,” says our Sexpert.

2. Do a reverse picture lookup. 
Did they send you photos of themselves? Can you see their profile pictures? Do a reverse photo lookup on Google to see if there are any other matches for those pictures. If you find the images under different names, it’s likely you’re being duped.

3. Research them a little.
So they’ve told you where they work, where they went to school, who their friends are… Look that up a little. On the MTV show Catfish, that’s usually the host Nev’s first clue as to having a liar on the line: Their jobs, friends and hobbies aren’t who they claim to be.

If you cover these bases, you’re likely to find definitive answers as to the validity of your online love.

Add Some Love To Your Holiday Lust

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Everyone knows that SexSearch is the best place to go online when they’re looking for fast and fun sex, but who says your fun as to end in the bedroom? A study from the University of Michigan showed that nearly 35% of people who meet online with the sole intention of a sexual hookup end up carrying out a romantic relationship lasting longer than three months.

Even if you’re only looking to get ‘er in and get out of there, it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a little romance along the way! Finding someone that you can enjoy sexually as well as outside the bedroom can offer a variety of experiences that will keep you busy and boost your mood.

If you’re not looking for anything serious but still want to enjoy some time out on the town, our Sexperts have the 6 best ways to do romance without overdoing the cheese.

  1. Get him tickets to a show
    Whether it be a concert or a play, seeing live entertainment brings a whole new level of excitement, and since it’s not something you get to do every day it’ll instantly put you both in a good mood. Try getting tickets to a general admissions show; that way you won’t be confined to your seat and you’ll have more opportunity to get up close and personal to each other during the set!
  2. Cook him dinner
    They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Find out what his favorite foods are and whip up something tasty to enjoy before suggesting a little dessert in the bedroom!
  3. Game on!
    There’s nothing a guy likes more than a little friendly competition.  Take him to see his favorite sports team and place a bet on who you think will win. Who ever comes out on top gets to choose what you do in the bedroom after the game! Continue reading

Three Easy Ways To Get Laid Online This Weekend

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It’s Friday, which means for most people the work week is over and it’s finally time for fun. But for people who worked all week, chances are you didn’t have the energy to cruise Sex Search and set up a hookup for the next few days. If you want to get laid this weekend but didn’t set something up in advance, we have the top 3 tips to get laid this weekend without having to put a lot of time into it.

  1. Update your profile, even if just a little
    When you update your profile, websites recognize you as an active user and are more likely to recommend you to other users currently online. That means more people are going to see your profile, and you’ll have a higher chance of other people reaching out to you.
  2. Browse profiles of people currently online
    It’s great when you find someone you’re attracted to and want to put in the time and effort to start a real relationship, but when you’re looking for someone to share the night with in the immediate future, you don’t want to take your chances. Messaging a flock of hot singles who are currently offline is a risk you won’t want to take. There’s no guarantee they’re going to check their messages before or even during the weekend, so messing people who are already online will increase your chances of connecting with someone instantly. The faster you connect, the faster you can make a date!
  3. Keep in mind what you’re looking for: This is sex, not love
    With so much personal information available online (hobbies, interests, musical preferences, etc), it’s easy to get lost with caring too much about what people are like. Continue reading

Celebrities We Want To See Naked

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When most people are looking for a sexual partner online, they base their decisions on physical appearance. Whether they like a big stomach, a round butt, muscular arms or Pamela Anderson breasts, everyone has a personal preference when it comes to who they want to get naked.

Especially when it comes to celebrities.

Sleeping with a star is the ultimate fantasy for millions of people, but the closest most of us will get to fulfilling that fantasy is watching them take it off on the big screen. Unfortunately there are a number of people who we’re still waiting to see strip down who haven’t been cast in those coveted ‘tastefully nude’ roles.

We polled our Sex Search Facebook fans and Twitter followers to see which actors, actresses and musicians they wanted to see in the flesh, and we’ve made a list of the 10 most popular answers.

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How To Juggle Multiple Partners

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When you’re looking for easy action, it’s probably safe to say that you’re going to try and get it on with whoever is willing and able. The monogamist game is for people looking for a relationship, but Sex Searchers aren’t looking for a future finance– They’re looking for fun!

If you’re going to try and have multiple sexual partners on the go, there are a few juggling guidelines one should follow in order to have a successful life of collecting belt notches.

Always, always, always ask about their sexual health situation

Whether you’ve had a clean slate your entire life or you’ve had a brush with an unfortunate burning sensation, protecting yourself from future STD’s isn’t just important to your own sex life, it’s important to those you’re planning on sleeping with as well. You may be planning on sleeping with everyone possible, but the people you’re sleeping with may only be planning on sleeping with you, and it’s your responsibility to protect them, as well. Find out if the people you’re sleeping with have any STDs or STIs so you can prevent spreading them. Continue reading

Prevent Having To Make Your Own Announcement

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If you’re a sports fan, and even if you’re not, chances are you’re already strongly familiar with the fact that Los Angeles Lakers’ Magic Johnson was diagnosed with the HIV virus in 1991, which led to his retirement from the National Basketball Association and a very public announcement about his status.

Recently ESPN has produced a documentary about Johnson’s now infamous press conference and the world’s response to it called The Announcement. It follows Johnson’s rise to a basketball superstar, and the downslide that followed him being diagnosed with HIV.

Because his diagnoses came in the early 90′s when little was known about the disease, there were a lot of questions surrounding his new disease, including everyone’s biggest concern: If Magic can get this, can I get it, too?

In 2012, HIV and AIDS remains a concern for many Americans, but thanks to the growing practice of safe sex, the number of Americans living with the virus has slightly decreased in the last few years, and the spread has nearly been eliminated among online daters, thanks to the fact that people who meet online wear protection during intercourse nearly 96% of the time, according to the website City  Data.

If you’re dating online, the last thing you’ll want is to get into bed with someone only for them to point out that you’re looking a little funky in your southern region. Contracting an STD, whither it be HIV or Herpes, can be embarrassing for anyone.

In order to ensure that you won’t have to face making an announcement of your own in the future, you need a little STD education! Knowing the signs and symptoms of STDs is the easiest way to prevent contracting one, and is the key to treating yourself early if you do.

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Look For The Ink: What Their Tattoos Will Tell You About Their Sex Lives

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It was reported by the National Post that 62% of all North Americans between the ages of 18 and 26 sported some form of body modification last year, and most of those mods were the permanent kind: Tattoos. From Disney characters to memorial tributes, getting tattooed has become a craze that is leaving youth in western civilization marked for life. Tattoos have become so popular, in fact, that they’ve been worked into the equal employment clause in Ontario, Canada– A company can no longer weigh a potential employee’s impact on the company with the physical appearance of their ink in mind.

And, of course, with new trends comes new studies from various professional institutions to give us information we really didn’t need on the subject. But, in this case, it’s information we like!

Students in the behavioral studies program in the department of psychology at the University of North Carolina have conducted a study on the sex lives of young adults in America who have gotten a tattoo within the past 5 years, and the results were as steamy as they were surprising!

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Think You’re Dating People Too Ugly For You? You’re Not Alone!

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Who knew the world as a whole was so shallow?! Ok– so maybe a lot of us already knew that. Most of us probably already knew that. But now, thanks to some much-need scientific research on the subject, we can call that a fact.

They were so interested in how much emphasis we put on looks in our dating lives that researchers from both Northwestern and Texas A&M Universities in Texas have gotten together to take a closer look into why we prefer dating hotties, and why that’s probably never going to change.

If you ask people what is most important to them in a partner, a lot of people will list things like, ‘family values’, ‘sense of humor’, and ‘life ambition’. It’s not often that someone will confess the brutally honest truth: Looks are a big factor in what people want from someone they date.

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How Often Should You Talk For A Successful Online Relationship?

There are millions of statistics that experts say make a good relationship. Healthy couples have sex 4-5 times a week, couples who spend time touching (hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc.) more than two hours a day are less likely to end in divorce, couples who spend at least one full 24-hour cycle apart each month are the likely to be happier in their courtship. It’s easy to find out how to be a good couple, but it’s not as easy to find out how to be a good online relationship.

So what are the keys to having a successful online relationship? Well, let’s take a look at the numbers…

tired woman at computer How Often Should You Talk For A Successful Online Relationship?

If you’re planning on dating someone online, you need to be prepared to put in the time! Experts say when you’re first engaging conversation with someone new, you should talk to them three times a week. This will give enough space in between the conversations to allow anticipation develop, but doesn’t put enough time between them to give you time to over think it. During those three times a week, you should set aside at least 5 minutes to talking about each others day, and around 25 minutes getting to know the others life. Half an hour is the perfect timeframe to have a honest discussion, but it’s not too much time that you are going to get sick of each other quickly.

Once you take your online dating experience a step further and actually start getting serious with one another, you should move that three days to 4-5. This will give you a chance to develop and grow your relationship and move towards the path to an offline relationship.

The most important thing to remember while dating online is that it takes time! You can’t expect to develop a relationship when you’re not willing to put in the effort. Set aside time each day dedicated to finding that ‘special someone,’ and it won’t be long until you’ve found success.

Is Summer The Right Time For Online Dating?

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Summer seems to be everyone’s social busy season. With weekly trips to the cottage, extra events for work, and what seems like weddings for every person you’ve ever met, are there really people online waiting to meet someone else, or will you be wasting your time when you log on?

MSNBC did a study in late 2010 showing that registration times for online datingsites peek during two separate times: Christmas and summer. It’s not shocking that so many people register during the holiday season, as ‘Nobody wants to be alone on Christmas’ is cliche for a reason, but seeing so many people spend their time trying to a connection in the warmer months when they could be outside usually comes as a surprise to most.

What’s the reason so many people start looking for a match when it heats up outside? We took a look into why people are so interested in finding an adult friend in the summer months.

People spend their winter getting fit for the season and want to show it off!
Not a lot of people would put hard work into something without wanting a reward in return. Women and men alike spend the winter trying to shed off any extra weight so they’re fit for baiting suit season. Once the time comes to show off what they’ve worked so hard at, they want to feel vindicated for the hours they’ve put in at the gym! People especially in the business world don’t have time to go out and find people in a traditional social setting, so they turn to adult dating sites to find someone that appreciates their newly sculpted form.

No one wants to go to a wedding sans their +1.
Summer is wedding season. With what seems like at least an invitation a month to a wedding, people want to insure they’re not going to show up to the event alone. Going with a friend usually won’t cut it considering your other friends at the wedding will know they’re not a real ‘date.’ Instead people turn to the Internet to help them find a match they can bring along to the special occasions. It’s not used as a last resort, but as a great resource to find someone to invite to your friends or family’s special days.

Summer sparks a romantic atmosphere.
There’s certain things we want to do in certain seasons. In the fall we want to re-do our wardrobes, in the winter we want to bundle up by a fire, in the spring we want to get fit for the summer, and in the summer we want to have a fling. It’s natural for people to want to get passionate in the heat, and they can’t do it alone. Finding someone specifically for hookups is most popular in the summer, which is a big contributor to the rise in online daters. Just like everyone else they want to heat things up, but they’re smart enough to use the easiest means to do it!

There’s better date ideas available in the summer.
A picnic in the park, the drive-in theatre, a boat ride… Summer is the perfect backdrop for romantic and thrilling dates you wouldn’t otherwise get to enjoy. Instead of spending the summer alone and watching others get to enjoy the fun dates, people want to put in an effort to enjoy the dates themselves. Seeing the increase of people dating online is contributed a lot to the fact that people simply want to have fun this time of year.

Whether you’re looking for a long lasting relationship or a quick hookup, it’s the perfect time of year to find plenty of singles online.