Monday Quickie: Mind Blowing BJ’s

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Alright, so let’s face it: We don’t always have time for sex. Between the grooming and buying protective products, it’s likely that you’d end up preparing for the event for longer than you actually do the act, and in a world that’s consistently busy, we don’t always have the time we’d like to get down and dirty.

But who says you have to have sex to be satisfied?!

This weeks Monday Quickie is all about oral and the new quick tip to give a perfect blow job.

First thing’s first: Lubrication! Nothing is worse than a bad blow job, so it only makes sense that nothing is better than a wet one, right? Sex shops and drug stores have endless options for water based flavored lubricants that allow for an ultra smooth experience with no bad aftertaste.

Now that you’re all slippery and ready to go, you need the trick to a perfect blow job: Your hands! Continue reading

Take A Seat Students, Your Oral Exam Is About To Begin

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Here at Sex Search, we’ve expressed the importance of oral sex before. It’s not just something that both parties finds enjoyable– It’s the connecting factor between a kiss and intercourse. The glue that holds the sexual experience together, and the middle man from just a physical yearning to an emotional connection.

There’s more to blowing someones mind than just blowing them. Sure all people like oral sex, but what’s the point of showing someone a time they’ll like when you can show them a time they’ll love??

In honor of the weekend being only one day away, we thought we’d share some of the most mind-blowing and easy to do oral sex tips to help you spice up your bedroom life!

Try a little eye contact

Although oral sex is a physical act, it’s also an extremely intimate experience. Guys have a tendency to look at you while you’re performing, and initiating eye contact can take him to the next level. You’re not just giving a blow job, you’re giving him a blow job! Glide your tongue from the base of his shaft towards the tip while maintaining eye contact, and break away just before you take his member into your mouth. It’ll drive him wild! Continue reading

How Important Is Foreplay?

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In a study conducted by The University of Waterloo in Ontario, Canada, it was found that a majority of men are content with going straight from home plate to the home run. What’s that mean, exactly? 76% of men that participated in the study said that foreplay wasn’t essential to their sexual experience– They were fine with going from a simple kiss straight to intercourse.

With that many men claiming they don’t need oral stimulation to have what they consider to be a pleasant and fulfilling experience, can’t we just skip the foreplay altogether and go straight to jumping in the sack?

According to the makers of the survey, the short answer is no. A big no.

Jennifer Campbell, the lead phycologist in the study at Waterloo, says that skipping foreplay every once in a while when a particularly heated night has you in the mood to go straight to sex, but foregoing foreplay on a regular basis can not only hinder your sex life, but it can actually make you perform worse in bed.

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Get Over Your Aversion Of Blow Jobs

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Let’s face it ladies, to most men, blow jobs are an important part of the sexual experience. Blow jobs are so important in fact, that Men’s Health Magazine found during a poll of 1000 readers that 26% of them said they’d prefer to receive oral sex than have intercourse.

It may not be a deal breaker early on in your relationship, but after time he’s likely to get restless and bored with your sex life. The top preferred method of foreplay for men internationally is fellatio, so if you think sucking… well… sucks, you’re going to have to get over it!

Oral sex isn’t just pleasurable for your man, RedBook reported in 2010 that a majority of men actually consider the act more intimate than intercourse itself, so one of the best ways to overcome your aversion to them is to simply keep in mind that you’re making someone you love happy.

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It’s Steak And Blow Job Day!

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Last month we celebrated every hopeless romantic’s favorite holiday: Valentine’s Day. Although it’s commonly celebrated among men and women alike, a poll conducted by the New York Times showed that 60% of women looked forward to the yearly celebration of love, but only 13% of men say that participating in the day is important to them.

Although February 14th doesn’t have appeal to all men, March 14th probably will– It’s Steak And Blow Job Day! (Calm down men, it’s not mandatory).

Men came together in the only place that people seem to connect these days– on the Internet– to come up with a day that’s as special to them as Valentine’s Day is to women, and they came up with what is probably a day all men will look forward to from now on.

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