Three Reasons To Embrace Your Curves In Bed

Posted on May 3, 2013 by Quinn

Let’s face it: For most women in America, the thinner they are, the better they feel about themselves. Between constantly seeing new-generation sex symbols as stick-thin women and having only a handful of popular ‘overweight’ celebrities showcased in movies and television shows, it’s no wonder that women of today have a complex that leaves them feeling frumpy when fat.

But we have good news for women carrying a few extra pounds: Men don’t only mind when you’re carrying a little junk in the trunk– They prefer it!

In a scientific study conducted by Men’s Health Magazine (and we’re using the term ‘scientific‘ loosely here), a group of 80 men were shown three photos of women wearing the same outfits with both the same hairstyles and makeup– One of a women considered underweight by the Body Mass Index, one considered to be in the healthy BMI weight range, and one considered overweight. Of the 80 men, less than 5% of them choose the underweight woman as the most attractive. 42% of them chose the woman of healthy weight, but a surprising 53% of men said that the woman above the healthy BMI range was the sexiest.

Instead of covering your curves, start to flaunt them! Here are three reasons our Sexperts think you should get the most bang for your belly:

You’ll be a more desired wife
Since the dawn of time men have been subconsciously choosing wives based on the size of their hips– and the bigger is the better! Bigger hips and thighs are linked to fertility and overall health, which evolution has proved to be a big attraction factor for men seeking a life-long mate. Continue reading →

Gwyneth Paltrow Is Trying To Get You Laid

Posted on May 3, 2013 by Woods

Gwyneth Paltrow is a pretty busy woman. She’s an Academy Award winner, a mother, the newly titled sexiest woman in the world, star of Iron Man 3 (which is opening this weekend!), a wife to one of the busiest guys in the music industry Chris Martin, and an active blogger. Now she’s adding one more thing to her list of accomplishments: Pimp.

Alright, maybe ‘pimp’ is an exaggeration. Is she standing on the street corner hailing down guys looking to have a good time? No. But she is going out of her way to try and get you laid!

If you’re a subscriber to Paltrow’s weekly e-mail, GOOP, there’s no doubt that you’re familiar with her usual banter: Pictures of her life to motivate you via jealousy, recipes to keep you skinny (because we all know she hates fat people), and tips on the next-best thing in the fashion industry. But the actress herself claims that this week’s e-mail isn’t for you, “It’s for your other half.”

If you’re looking to get laid tomorrow, Gwennie has a few tips to jump-start your weekend sex success!

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Spring Has Sprung– And So Has Your Sex Drive

Posted on March 27, 2013 by Quinn

Top sexual research experts at Harvard University, The University of California, Miami State University along with multiple other prominent research facilities have found undeniable signs that both singles and people in relationships have a significantly lower amount of sex than they do during the rest of the year. So naturally with the dawning of spring comes the reawakening of your long lost libido! If you’re a little rusty from a winder of little sex, how do you get back into the swing of things in a comfortable way?

Our Sexperts have compiled a list of the 5 must-do’s to get back into a sex routine!

STRETCH!!! …Seriously though, stretch.
Let’s face it, we all get a little lazier in the winter. With the cold weather promoting us to spend more time on our couches and the icy sidewalks convincing us to take the subway to work, our bodies can get a little stiff over the season. Whether you do an in-home yoga routine or you head to the gym to limber up, giving your body the chance to stretch is a big must before diving back into bed.
Drink lots of water
Hydration isn’t only great for your skin, but being properly hydrated gives your body better stamina, making it more likely that you’ll last longer in bed. Continue reading →

The Blessing Is A Curse: Why Having A Big Dick Can Hinder You In Bed

Posted on March 4, 2013 by Quinn

If you’re a frequent SexSeacher, there’s no doubt you’re already familiar with our newest addition to the SS team, Erika Jordan. Erika is one of the biggest know-it-all’s about sex in the best way possible. She’s experienced nearly everything in the sack, so she has intimate knowledge of almost any sex question you could have. That’s why we’ve brought her on to answer any and every question you have about love, lust, and everything that goes on in between.

This week we had a question from someone with a very large problem. To put it the most delicate way possible, he’s a little too well endowed and women have a hard time receiving what the good lord game him.

We know that most men without this problem would love to have it, but men who are effected by it generally whistle a different tune. While a slightly larger than normal penis is generally pleasurable in bed, a too-big penis can be extremely painful for someone who isn’t used to the size.

So what can you do if you go into a sexual situation knowing that your member might be a bit much to take?

Have realistic expectations
If this is the first time you and your lady are getting naked together, don’t expect intercourse. The human body is only designed to take so much, and if she hasn’t had the chance to adjust, then diving in isn’t really an option. Thinking that you’re in for a passionate night may leave you disappointed, so don’t go into it with high expectations.
Have her do a little homework
When you’re in school, you do homework so when the big test comes around you’re ready. That’s exactly what she’ll have to do here. Have her physically prepare herself with the help of dildos and stretchers so you don’t injure her during the big moment.
Be comfortable with oral sex
Oral sex is a two way street. If you’re not planning on giving her something that will leave her satisfied, don’t expect the same in return! Chances are until she’s prepared for your size you’ll be stuck in Blow Job City, which can very quickly become vacant if you’re not willing to give her the same! Go down on her as much as she goes down on you so you can continue to get your jollies off.
Have patience!
Some women’s bodies can adjust within a day, and some can take weeks. Whatever you do, don’t force the issue. You’ll have to trust her word on when she’s ready, otherwise you’ll run the risk of simply not getting laid at all.

Want to know Erika’s tips on dealing with a big dick? Check out her video on the subject under the cut! Continue reading →

You Have A Better Chance Of Finding Sex After Valentine’s Day Then Before, New Study Shows

Posted on February 19, 2013 by Quinn

We know that most single people were scrambling to find action before February 14th, but a new study shows that the smart people weren’t in a rush: People are more likely to find sex in the two weeks following Valentine’s Day than they are to find it on the days leading up to the holiday.

According to Pace University in New York City, nearly twice as many people in North America find new sexual partners between February 14th and 28th than one4s who do between February 1st and 14th.

“There’s an urgency for those looking for love before Valentine’s Day because of the emotional effects that come along with being alone. People who genuinely want to be in a relationship often feel overwhelmed at the thought of being alone on Valentine’s Day for fear that seeing others happy will amplify their sadness,” says Pace professor Karl MacIver. “But that’s not the case for those simply looking to have sex. People who are looking for a strictly physical relationship have a better chance of finding it post-February 14th. The emotional stigma that comes along with the time of year has worn off by this point, and many people who were looking for relationships begin to settle for the idea of sex.” Continue reading →

Which Celebrities Have Had Real Sex On Screen? We Have The List!

Posted on January 14, 2013 by Quinn

Nothing is better than watching a movie and getting the surprise of a hot and heavy sex scene. I mean, who doesn’t want unexpected sex somewhere in their day? As exciting as it can be to see two people pretend to have sex, it’s even more thrilling when that fictitious act is all more real than you think.

We’re talking about having those two you’re watching have fake intercourse actually getting it on while filming!

Our Sexsearchers have watched all the rumored did-they-or-didn’t-they sex scenes from mainstream movies, and we’ve come up with a list of flicks that should be considered much more pornographic than they are.

Chloe Sevigny- ‘The Brown Bunny’

There’s no real question to this one: When Chloe Sevigny starred in the movie The Brown Bunny back in 2003, she gave a pretty graphic on-screen blow job to Vincent Gallo, who not only co-stared in the movie with her, but also wrote and directed the film. Gee, we wonder why he wrote that into the scrip…?

Donald Sutherland/ Julie Christie- ‘Don’t Look Now’

It may not look like it now, but back in their heyday Donal and Julie both used to be certified babes. Dirty, horny babes. During their 1973 movie Don’t Look Now, the two actors allegedly pushed the envelope and got down and dirty while filming their love scene. Former Variety editor Peter Bart even went as far as claiming in his book that while he was on set watching the movie, ”It was clear to me they were no longer simply acting: they were fucking on camera.” But Sutherland had something a little different to say. When he was asked about what Bart had to say buy the New York Daily, he said the claims were simply ”not true. None of it. Not the sex. Not him witnessing it.” Our Sexperts sure do thing he isn’t exactly being truthful, but you’ll have to watch the movie to find out for yourself! Continue reading →

What’s The Best Way To Lose Weight To Have A Sex-Ready Body For 2013?

Posted on January 10, 2013 by Quinn

It’s not much of a surprise considering it’s been a consistent trend since resolutions have been around, but losing weight and getting a nice body reigned supreme as the top ambitions of 2013 for North Americans. And where do we feel the pressure to keep up with those resolutions? In the bedroom.

Having to strip down in front of someone new works as a great reminder of how far off track you’ve gotten from your resolution. Between celebratory drinks to ring in the new year, left over holiday food and the routine of getting back to work life (and therefore office donuts) makes it hard to start your resolution off on the right foot, let alone keep it going all year.

SexSearch can easily set you up with new singles to enjoy through the new year, but if you’re self conscious about your body, your fun is only going to go so far. So what can you do to actually achieve your goals of getting your body in the shape you want it to be in?

Our Sexperts have found the best tried and tested methods to getting in shape for long-term success. Quick-fixes are almost always temporary, and once your fad diet ends, so does your small waistline.

If you’re looking to slim down before the summer and keep it off well into 2014, we have the best ways to accomplish your resolution.

Cut out all refined sugars
This one might be the toughest for you with a sweet tooth, but nearly all health and nutritionist specialists say that cutting out sugars is a must for those trying to lose weight. Things like sodas, candy and general ‘junk food’ should be eliminated. Now, we know that for some of you it would feel slightly drastic going cold turkey, so start slow and build your way to zero. First replace your usual soda with its diet alternative, then slowly replace the rest of your fattening treats with fruits and veggies. The cleaner you can eat, the faster you’ll lose the weight. Continue reading →

What Do You Wish You Knew About Sex Before Losing Your Virginity?

Posted on January 9, 2013 by Quinn

We all stress over our first time having sex before we actually get around to doing the dirty. Thinking about if it will hurt, how long it will last, what will happen when it’s done– Sexual experiences for the first time are a world of questions that you simply don’t know the answers to.

Well the users of Reddit, a public forum that covers any and every subject under the sun, asked each other what they wish they knew before they had sex for the first time, and their answers ranged from surprising to inspiring to downright accurate.

See what people from all over the world had to say about it!

“There is no perfect moment for the first time so don’t plan it. If you are planning it on a specific time you are under pressure and it won’t meet your expectations by any mean.” -cruzer71

“If you think someone can hear you, they can probably hear you.” -cute_as_corgis

“Muscular endurance. Once your arms start to shake it gets hard to focus.” -Doomskank

“That the person I’m having sex with wants to see me naked and I shouldn’t be having a heart attack about what they think since they already want it.”- wellwhatishername Continue reading →

Are You Wrapping It Up Properly? New Study Shows Most People Use Condoms Wrong

Posted on December 29, 2012 by Quinn

There’s good news in the world of STD prevention: The number of condoms sold in the United States rose by 25% in 2011. So either one lucky guy who practices safe sex is having a lot more of it, or more men are smartening up about their sexual health.

Unfortunately, many of those men (maybe even you) are making crucial mistakes when it comes to condom use. Strapping it on and giving ‘er a go doesn’t fit the bill anymore– You need to make sure you’re doing it right!

These are the top 5 condom mistakes guys make without even knowing it, and what you can do to make them right:

You’re not leaving space at the tip
Sure it looks a little odd having extra latex space between your weenier and the end of the condom, but that small bit of space is going to be what keeps the condom working. That space is crucial for the seamen to have a place to go. Your little fellas swim so fast out of your body that if you don’t leave enough space (at least quarter of an inch), they’re likely to break the condom. 24.3% of unplanned pregnancies caused while wearing a condom were reported to have been caused because of this issue.
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Hit The Radio: Music Can Help You Last Longer During Sex

Posted on December 28, 2012 by Quinn

New studies have been released claiming that listening to music while working out can help you work out longer. Why? Music gives you something to concentrate on other than your body. It helps you forget about your muscle tension and the burn from your exercise, and having a rhythm to concentrate on can even help regulate your breathing.

So what does this have to do with sex? When you strip away the pleasure, sex is little more than a great cardio workout. With that logic, is it possible that listening to music can help improve your sexercise?

Doctors are now saying that one of the best natural battles against early ejaculation is to simply pump the music during intercourse.