Monday Quickie: Staying On Time

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We all know that some men have trouble releasing during oral and vaginal sex, but let’s face it: The reason most men don’t have quickies is because they simply get carried away. Even if you have a time limit, once you get going that often goes right out the window. Once things start getting hot and heavy, it’s hard trying to keep an eye on the time!

For those who are having a hard time sticking with a sex schedule, our Sexperts have the perfect solution: Music.

Most people use music simply to block the awkward silence that comes along with sex, but our Sexperts say it’s the perfect way to keep a quickie a quickie!

“Simply limit yourself to three songs. Don’t allow your foreplay to last any longer than the first song, really start getting into the act during the second, and get into a position where you can climax before the end of the third. It’s the perfect way to time your romp without having to pull out the stop watch!” says our Sexpert Arianna.

If you want the perfect playlist for your time in the sack, here are three simple songs that can get you in the mood and keep you on time: Continue reading

The Newest Celebrity Diet Craze: Having Sex To Slim Down

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Celebrities are notorious for going to extreme lengths to lose weight, but it looks like Hollywood has finally found a diet that can satisfy their weight loss wants and their sexual appetite: Having sex! According to a segment recently shot for the Rachel Ray show, stars are foregoing the gym and turning to the bedroom to shed their unwanted pounds.

Intercourse as a means to burn calories isn’t an extremely shocking revelation; people have been getting down to slim down for years. But it’s how the stars are doing it. Fitness experts have developed a new way to incorporate exercise and sex so you’re getting the best of muscle pain and internal pleasure.

So what should you be doing to maximize your calorie count in bed? Our Sexperts have the three tips you need to follow to get your sweat on while getting your sweat on!

  1. Get your faces apart
    Get into missionary position and place your palms on the bed by either side of their head. Then prop your body up on your arms as though you’re doing a push-up, but try to keep your faces apart as much as possible. As you thrust, your body will naturally force you to use your arms to support more of your body weight, and keeping your faces separated will ensure you’re putting as much weight as possible on your arms. Maintaining this position for three minutes burns nearly the same amount of calories as 15 minutes of a fast-pace on the treadmill, and it gets your arms toned! Continue reading

Could Frequent Sex Be Bad For Your Relationship?

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Orgasms and intimacy and relationships, oh my! In the world of dating a majority of people think that sex acts as a glue to hold everything together, but new studies show that sex itself has very little to do with helping relationships last. Intercourse, however, is very important. Sounds confusing, right? Our Sexperts have broken down the latest research on why you can skip sex, but you can’t skip getting close.

A team of researchers were lead by Dr. Marnia Robinson, a physiologist who recently published the book Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow, in the attempts to find a chemical connection in the brain that connected a physical orgasm with the feeling of love, but their search came up empty.

Although scientists in the past have attributed foreplay and orgasms to solidifying the bond between two people, Dr. Robinson’s team have uncovered evidence that suggests that isn’t the case. The research panel found that foreplay builds sexual tension to the point of explosion, but as fast as it comes it crashes back down. Although higher levels of serotonin are released into the body during an orgasm, the fleeting feeling the body is left with after the adrenaline crash leaves much to still be desired.

So why is it still important to have sex? Robinson claims that physical contact is one of the best ways to sustain a relationship. Eye and skin-to-skin contact are one of the biggest contributors to creating a strong chemical bond; both of which are done during sex. Continue reading

Could Your Lips Lead To The Kiss Of Death In Your Relationship?

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The eyes may be the window to the soul but the lips are the window to your passion, and if they’re not working as well as they should be, then you might get derailed in your journey from the kiss to the bedroom.

According to a recent study conducted by GQ Magazine, nearly 60% of women say they wouldn’t consider sleeping with a man if there wasn’t a chemistry connection in their kiss. So what can you do to insure that you’re going to lock lips in a way that will keep them wanting more? Our Sexperts have come up with the 5 essential musts to a perfect first kiss!

5. Facial Exercises

Sure it’ll make you feel weird while you’re doing it, but it’ll make the difference between being relaxed and going in stiff. A study at the University of Calgary in Alberta, Canada, has shown that by smiling and relaxing your face throughout the day before your date, you’re more likely to have better control over your facial muscles when you lean in for your kiss, making it easier for you to be relaxed during a kiss. A relaxed jaw is the key to a good kiss!

4. Breath Spray

Most people go straight to the mints if they’re expecting a smooch, but if that’s your intention, then you’ve already made your first mistake. Chewing mints, or even hard-shelled gum, can leave particles in your mouth which, needless to say, are a little gross for someone else to feel with their tongue. If you want to be sure you’re going to have good breath for the big moment, stick with the spray. Continue reading

Avoiding Awkward: How To Have A Smooth First Date

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Most people looking for sex online don’t put too much thought into setting the stage for a good date, but chances are you’ll be meeting your partner in a public place, so preparing yourself for a date is essential to making sure you’re going to seal the deal.

What can you do to make sure that your first meeting goes off without a hitch? Talk! Studies from the University of Washington show that the better the conversation two people have, the better the chemistry will be between them. And we all know that chemistry leads to a great time in bed!

Having a list of topics to talk about going into the date won’t just keep the night flowing smoothly, it will keep you confident should the conversation run flat. Check out what our Sexperts think are the 5 best conversation starters to avoid awkward silences on a first date:

1. “What’s your newest interest?”

In today’s ever changing work, it seems like people are picking up new hobbies almost weekly. Whether it was an idea that sparked from Pinterest or a celebrity started a new fashion trend, fads have come and gone faster than lightening this year. By simply asking what their newest interest is, you’re opening the door to a conversation about something they enjoy. Experts say this helps them mentally associate your conversation with a comfortable familiarity, making them more likely to relax in your presence. Continue reading

Monday Quickie: Pool Positions

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With the nearly unbearable heat this summer, it’s hard to get in the mood to get hot and sweaty with someone in a hot, sweaty bedroom. So why not take your escapades outside where you can keep it cool? We’re dedicating our Monday Quickie to getting it on without having to sweat it out!

Grab your favorite pool chair and lay on it so your butt is on the very edge. Most regular floating devices tend to sink if you put too much weight on one side, so make sure your chair can hold the pressure. Stay in the shallow end so your guys pelvis is just above the water line and go at it! Having sex underwater can lead to yeast and bladder infections, but having your legs submerged will give you the same refreshing sensation while keeping your treasured goods in a place they’ll stay safe. Continue reading

The Good, The Bad And The Ugly: How The iPhone Has Changed Our Sex Lives

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The iPhone has changed our lives in countless ways. We never get lost anymore, we can see our loved ones who are on the other side of the world, we can Google anything from anywhere, and we no longer have to wait until 6 o’clock to hear the latest news from the world. But one of the most noticeable changes for adults has been to their sex lives. Whether it’s for the better or for the worse, there’s a noticable difference between the sex lives of the past and that of our new, technologically advanced lifestyles.

Our Sexperts have looked into the ups and downs we’ve seen since the iPhone broke onto the market, and it’s obvious that the Apple product has both hindered and helped our lives.

iSex Pro: We’re more educated on sex as a whole.

Studies from Washington University have shown that apps like the iKamasutra and iPositions have given the general masses easy access to knowledge about sexual health, lifestyles, and new ways to spice up bedroom life. Because people can now learn about sex in a discrete and intimate manner, they’re more likely to seek answers to questions they would have otherwise been to embarrassed to ask. The Washington study showed that the average adult is nearly twice as sexually educated than people of the same age and lifestyles a decade ago.

iSex Con: It’s lowered our standards.

We all expected technological advances by 2012, but who knew those advances would actually lower our standards when looking for a match? A survey taken of 30-year-old smartphone owners showed that people who own iPhones have had more partners since purchasing their phones than people with other devices. Just how many more? The average iPhone user has 12.3 partners. The average Android user just 6.1.

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The Difficult Subject: How To Reveal Your Embarrassing Fantasy

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Sex fetishes. We all have them. Some guys like feet, some girls like butt play, some couples like adding someone else into the mix– Whatever your fantasy is, no matter how wild or outlandish, someone else out there is looking to do the same thing.

Living out your sexual fantasies isn’t the difficult part; bringing up the subject is. If you’re harvesting all your wild sexual thoughts, it’s time to get them out there so you can start living your dream!

Here are the 3 things you need to do if you want to finally live out your fantasy.

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Sex Ed For Men

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With men thinking about sex at least a dozen times a day, you’d think they’d be better at talking about it! Psychologists from Texas A&M say that when it comes to questions about sex, men have the harder time being open about their inquiries.

Our Sexperts have found the most common unasked questions about the bedroom by men so you can get the answers you’re looking for with out having to actually ask the questions.

Get your pens ready fellas, because our sex Q&A class is in session!

The girl I’m with says that she’s too sensitive for multiple orgasms. Can that happen, or is this just an excuse?
Look at it this way– She has 8,000 nerve endings in her clitoris alone, and that makes up less than 5% of the entire area of her southern region. If she’s too sensitive immediately after sex, keep the arousal level high by concentrating on other areas like her breasts, neck and thighs until she’s ready for round two.

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It’s Getting Hot, So Stay Cool! Sex Positions To Enjoy In The Heat

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With the summer comes short skirts, good barbecues, and unbearably hot weather. If you’re anything like 50% of all residents of major cities then you live without air conditioning, and that that can make sex feel like a chore rather than a pleasure. Who wants to be hot, then get even hotter with a little bump and grind? Body heat isn’t exactly enticing.

What do you do when you’re too hot to get hot? Get cool! We have the most effective positions to do while trying to beat the heat this summer.

The Cold Shower

We know that cold showers are usually had when someone is trying to not think about sex, but tough times call for drastic measures! Fill your tub with only a foot of cool water. That way whoever is on top is only getting an occasional cold burst when they bring themselves closer to their partner, which will be a refreshing change as you’re getting hot! Continue reading