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The Blessing Is A Curse: Why Having A Big Dick Can Hinder You In Bed

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If you’re a frequent SexSeacher, there’s no doubt you’re already familiar with our newest addition to the SS team, Erika Jordan. Erika is one of the biggest know-it-all’s about sex in the best way possible. She’s experienced nearly everything in the sack, so she has intimate knowledge of almost any sex question you could have. That’s why we’ve brought her on to answer any and every question you have about love, lust, and everything that goes on in between.

This week we had a question from someone with a very large problem. To put it the most delicate way possible, he’s a little too well endowed and women have a hard time receiving what the good lord game him.

We know that most men without this problem would love to have it, but men who are effected by it generally whistle a different tune. While a slightly larger than normal penis is generally pleasurable in bed, a too-big penis can be extremely painful for someone who isn’t used to the size.

So what can you do if you go into a sexual situation knowing that your member might be a bit much to take?

  1. Have realistic expectations
    If this is the first time you and your lady are getting naked together, don’t expect intercourse. The human body is only designed to take so much, and if she hasn’t had the chance to adjust, then diving in isn’t really an option. Thinking that you’re in for a passionate night may leave you disappointed, so don’t go into it with high expectations.
  2. Have her do a little homework
    When you’re in school, you do homework so when the big test comes around you’re ready. That’s exactly what she’ll have to do here. Have her  physically prepare herself with the help of dildos and stretchers so you don’t injure her during the big moment.
  3. Be comfortable with oral sex
    Oral sex is a two way street.  If you’re not planning on giving her something that will leave her satisfied, don’t expect the same in return! Chances are until she’s prepared for your size you’ll be stuck in Blow Job City, which can very quickly become vacant if you’re not willing to give her the same! Go down on her as much as she goes down on you so you can continue to get your jollies off.
  4. Have patience!
    Some women’s bodies can adjust within a day, and some can take weeks. Whatever you do, don’t force the issue. You’ll have to trust her word on when she’s ready, otherwise you’ll run the risk of simply not getting laid at all.

Want to know Erika’s tips on dealing with a big dick? Check out her video on the subject under the cut! Continue reading →

Rev His Engine: 5 Ways To Get Him Going

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When the temperature drops, so do libido’s. In fact, studies out of New York University’s department of psychology suggests that the sex drive of the average man drops so much in the winter months that it resembles someone 5 years older than himself. So that 25-year-old you’re dating is acting more like a 30-year-old in the sack.

While it’s not your responsibility to keep him up at all times, it will benefit you to know how to turn him on when the mood strikes! Our Sexperts have put together the 5 easiest and hottest ways to turn on your man even after the summer heat has fizzled away.

  1. Give him a surprise from behind
    We here at Sex Search think that sex should be anything but routine, which is why we often steer women away from hand jobs. If you’re incorporating it with a blow job, it can be great! But if you’re giving one on its own it can leave a lot to be desired– Unless you spice it up! Instead of doing the usual pants dance (that’s the name we gave to the action of slowly teasing your man as to whether or not you’re going to undo his zipper and show him a good time), surprise him from behind and start without warning. Giving him a hand job with your arm wrapped around his body from behind will allow you to have your plan flat against the underside of his penis as you stroke it, which is how he feels when he pleasures himself. Studies from Men’s Health Magazine show that men actually prefer this feeling to how a woman’s hand is usually positioned because it’s what they’ve conditioned themselves to enjoy through years of masturbation. But you have an advantage: The only sensation men get while giving themselves a hand job is purely through their penis, but you’ll be able to kiss his neck, back, arms and ears to give him an added sensation he’s not used to.
  2. Try a new groom
    Grooming habits are extremely important to men. If you’re expecting to turn him on while sporting a 5 o’clock shadow, you may find yourself left to finish the job on your own. Whether it be shaving a landing strip for the first time, going full Brazilian or even pulling a Jennifer Love Hewitt and vajazzling your vajayjay, your man is going to want to experience first-hand what your new groom feels like against his body.  Continue reading →

Not Packing So Much Heat? Here’s How To Have Sex With A Small Penis

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It’s said that the size of a mans package is directly influenced by the size of his ego, and nothing hurts as much as an ego bruised. For men, a small penis can be embarrassing and immobilizing, but with a little work from both parties, and a little slice of humble pie, and great sex with a small penis can be easily achieved.

So what can the guy do to perform to his best abilities? And what can the female do to help him along the way? We have the best practices to make the most of what you’re working with.

Give him some oral love
The more you get him going with oral sex, the harder he’s going to be. When a man gets fully aroused, he has an abundance of blood flowing to his lower region, and the more blood he has down there, the bigger he is. Men can add an additional three quarters of an inch to their normal erection if they’re aroused enough.

Get him to give you oral attention
The goal in intercourse, especially with people you meet online, is orgasm. Unless you’re having sex for the sake of love, then pleasure is mostly likely on the top of your priorities. Have him get you as close as orgasm as possible with his hands and through oral simulation so when you really get going you’re already almost ready to climax, making his job easier than expected.

Take a yoga class
Who knew that there’s a way to make a penis bigger through exercise? Yoga can actually relax a man’s pelvis, which can make a difference in the size of his member. Continue reading →

The Newest Celebrity Diet Craze: Having Sex To Slim Down

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Celebrities are notorious for going to extreme lengths to lose weight, but it looks like Hollywood has finally found a diet that can satisfy their weight loss wants and their sexual appetite: Having sex! According to a segment recently shot for the Rachel Ray show, stars are foregoing the gym and turning to the bedroom to shed their unwanted pounds.

Intercourse as a means to burn calories isn’t an extremely shocking revelation; people have been getting down to slim down for years. But it’s how the stars are doing it. Fitness experts have developed a new way to incorporate exercise and sex so you’re getting the best of muscle pain and internal pleasure.

So what should you be doing to maximize your calorie count in bed? Our Sexperts have the three tips you need to follow to get your sweat on while getting your sweat on!

  1. Get your faces apart
    Get into missionary position and place your palms on the bed by either side of their head. Then prop your body up on your arms as though you’re doing a push-up, but try to keep your faces apart as much as possible. As you thrust, your body will naturally force you to use your arms to support more of your body weight, and keeping your faces separated will ensure you’re putting as much weight as possible on your arms. Maintaining this position for three minutes burns nearly the same amount of calories as 15 minutes of a fast-pace on the treadmill, and it gets your arms toned! Continue reading →

Yoga Your Way To A Better Sex Life

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If you’re trying to improve your sex life with toys and Kama Sutra books, you might be wasting your time: Reports show that one of the most effective new ways to have better sex isn’t by concentrating on sex at all, but concentrate on your yoga! A recent article in The Journal of Sexual Medicine has researchers stating that women who practice ‘Eastern techniques of mindfulness and physical strength’, including yoga, have a higher level of sexual desire and are likely to make better lovers in bed.

The research shows that not only are there vast physical side effects that will benefit your bedroom life through yoga, but the most important change comes from your mind.

One of the most important aspects of yoga is control over your mind and having the basic ability to be aware of the present moment. Nearly 80% of females who participated in the study experienced a heightened sexual experience after doing several yoga-adjacent body-awareness exercises in the days leading up to their sexual encounter.

It’s great that it keeps your mind happy, but when you’re in bed, it’s all about body! Below we have the top 5 physical benefits that the practice of yoga can have on your sex life:

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