Keep Your Bedroom Life Active: 5 Things She’s Craving

Posted on December 26, 2012 by Quinn

When guys jump in bed, there’s usually only two things on their mind: Getting er in and getting er off. That’s great for you when you’re accomplishing your goal, but what about the girl your with? Are you sure she’s enjoying that hard-and-fast thrusting you’ve been giving her is something you both enjoy?

If you want to turn the tables and concentrate on pleasing your woman instead of concentrating on being pleased yourself, our Sexperts are sharing the 5 hottest things that set women off in the bedroom.

5. Get Your Edward Cullen On
No, this isn’t a suggestion that you throw on glitter and act like a 17-year-old vampire. We’re talking about what vampires do– Bite necks. The skin between a woman’s collarbone to the base of her ear is amongst the thinnest in her entire body. What’s that mean? Nearly fully exposed nerve endings. Hard, passionate kisses and gentle nibbling along her neck mixed with light blowing on the moist trail you’ve left will create an irresistible mix of hot and cold that will have her begging for more.

4. Use Your Words
Everyone has their insecurities– They’re not sure if you like their moves, if you’ve noticed those 5 extra pounds you’ve been carrying, if you noticed that weird little moan they accidentally let out… Whatever their insecurities are, they’re enough to make a woman hold back in bed. But there’s no easier way to loosen her up and to clear her head then gently reassuring her that her worries are unjustified. Just how can you do that? Continue reading →

We’ve Got Our Hands On The Form 4 Vibrator, And Trust Us: You’re Going To Want One, Too!

Posted on December 14, 2012 by Quinn

We know that the Christmas season is busy for everyone, and sometimes you just don’t have the time to entertain a date. Finding a date on Sex Search can take as little as a few minutes, but that doesn’t mean everyone has the time to do their make-up, set out their outfits, go meet their date in town and finally get around to getting down. On months like this, sometimes you just need to do the job yourself!

Our Sexperts have started testing fan favorite vibrators to let you in on the good, the bad, and the ugly of the sex toy world so you can stay satisfied– Even if you don’t have the time to find action.

We’ve got our hands on the JIMMYJANE Form 4 vibrator and if we were to sum this review up in one word, there’s no doubt on what that would be: Orgasmic.

The Form 4 comes from a line of trusted vibrators that have been redesigned and revamped to give you the most sensation from the a simple and discrete package. It’s new design offers a smaller alternative to other vibrators with the same power, but that doesn’t mean your neighborhood is going to hear what you’re doing if you use it! The Form 4 is impressively quiet for the amount of power it produces. When we compared it to other vibrators of similar sizes, we found that the Form was more subtle than FIVE of its leading competitors. Continue reading →

Hey, Honey: How The Sweet Snack Can Enhance Your Sex Life

Posted on November 14, 2012 by Quinn

When it comes to sexual sensations, there aren’t many that trump having someone’s moist tongue covering your body. It creates both a sexual bond and an emotional connection, thanks to the intimate and uncommon nature of being licked. But that sensation can be taken from good to great with a simple ingredient: Honey.

A survey published by Cosmopolitan Magazine showed that while men have more visual fantasies, a majority of women say their biggest fantasy is to have honey licked off their bodies. Our Sexperts break down why women like it so much and why it feels so good for them.

Eating honey increases saliva
Nothing feels worse than having someone go down on you with a dry mouth. In fact, we here at Sex Search found that nearly 60% of men actually specify ‘wet blow jobs’ as sexual interests in their profile, as opposed to simply ‘blow jobs.’ Having your whistle extra wet is similar to the sensation you feel during sex, which gives you the benefit of both oral sex and intercourse. Honey has natural sugars in it, which stimulates the saliva glands and causes your mouth to produce more spit. Poor a little honey on their inner thighs and on their waste line to lick off before you perform oral sex. Not only will the tease be great for foreplay, but it will let you do a better job at your main attraction. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: How To Spice Up Your Halloween

Posted on October 29, 2012 by Quinn

We’re only two days away from Halloween, but many people are still at a loss on how to make this the best October 31st yet. During a holiday known for bringing out the sex appeal in the least expecting people, it’s an important day for singles to break out of their shell and show what they’re made of! If you’re out of ideas on how to showcase your sexy side, our Sexperts have four easy and fast ways to get the kind of attention you want this holiday.

Think about what men are interested in
It’s always a fun time when you and your girlfriend dress up as the different stages of Allie from The Notebook, but the only attention you’re going to attract is that from other women. Think about outfits that would attract not just the eye of a man, but the mind. What are men interested in? What’s a costume that would start a conversation with someone based on the subject matter? Try donning the jersey of a controversial sports star or the outfit of a prominent character in a manly movie. It will draw the attention of the men in the room, and will give you a great starter conversation when you find someone who catches your eye.

Go for quality with your costume
There are very obvious differences between someone who has put thought into what they’re wearing, and someone who has popped over to their closest sex shop and bought one of their $20 fetish outfits. There’s nothing wrong with wearing something you’d find in a generic dress-up section, but buying one out of the package runs the risk of having the same costume as countless other people, and it shows a lack of creativity, which studies show is a vital attraction factor for men. Get ideas from costume shops, but go the DIY route instead of buying one from a box. That way you can put your own personal touch on it, and it won’t look like cheaply made. Continue reading →

Stretch Before Reading This Post: We’re Exploring The Best Kama Sutra Positions

Posted on October 15, 2012 by Quinn

With a new season comes new responsibilities, new distractions, and new excuses to not be spending time in the bedroom. Between fall cleaning, preparing for the upcoming holidays, and most likely starting a new quarter at work, it’s easy to lose motivation to stay active in bed.

Now that the weather is getting cold, it’s never been a more important time to keep the flame alive in the bedroom. If you’re not feeling the heat, we have some of the best Kama Sutra positions to try this month! Our friends at So Feminine have give us great ideas on new and exotic positions. They’ll turn you on, stretch you out, and, most importantly, get you off.

The Erotic V
This one doesn’t just give you extreme pleasure; it suits the needs of people who are body-concious. Let’s face it: If you don’t feel sexy, then you’re not going to have a good time during sex. It’s hard to keep your mind on pleasure when you’re concentrating on ever little wiggle and jiggle of your belly. Luckily this position will let you cover the places you’re likely to be most insecure about. With the female sitting on the edge of a waist-high table, face the male and put your knees over his shoulder. Have the man enter while holding the woman by the hips, and have the woman lock her hands around his neck. This will allow for good control while thrusting, and will allow your legs to cover the parts you don’t want them to see. The position plays double duty as a pleasure enduser and a body cover up.

The X-Rated
This may be one of the more difficult positions to get into, but it’s extremely pleasurable for both parties, and it will give him a view to die for. Have the man lay down on the bed, facing up. The female lowers herself onto him in reverse cowboy position and extends her legs so her feet are laying flat on either side of his head. Then she extends her upper body, grabbing each of his feet with her hands, putting her body in the shape of an X. Once the pair is in position, she can either gently rock her body or vigorously thrust her hips on his pelvis.

The Ape
A fair warning ahead of time: Your man has to be a little well-endowed in order to successfully do this position. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: Sex Toys Without The Shopping

Posted on October 15, 2012 by Quinn

We’ve all been in the position where we want to get down and dirty, but don’t have the proper equipment to experience the pleasure we’re craving. Sex is always good, but when you add sex toys to the mix, it can be down-right explosive.

Instead of interrupting your plans of a night in by having to drive to a sex shop, our Sexperts have come up with the 5 best sex toys… that are completely homemade. Save your money (and your time!) and test out our picks for the hottest things to find in your home to spice things up.

Freshen Your Breath
Ever notice that sex shops have a variety of gels and lubes that promise an unparalleled tingling sensation when you go down. The problem? They can cost upwards of $40. No thanks. Our Sexperts have a cheaper alternative, and it’s done with things you probably already have in your home. Chewing a mint or rinsing with mouth wash prior to going down on a partner will give the same tingling sensation as those expensive lotions will.
Dust Yourselves Off
If you have a yet-to-be-used feather duster laying around your house, use it to sensually brush the feathers against their body. Over their chest, down their stomach and their inner thighs are extremely sensitive areas, so having something as soft as a feather stroking those spots will really get them going. Continue reading →

Utilize Your Lube: New Ways To Use An Old Favorite

Posted on October 9, 2012 by Quinn

It’s the one thing you should always have by your bedside. Whether it’s to make foreplay more playful or to make sex more smooth, a good lubricant is one of the key ingredients to good sex. But if all you’re using it for is to make things glide a little easier, then you’re not using it to it’s fullest abilities!

Our Sexperts have thought of some fun, new and creative ways to use lube to have more fun while in the sack. Check out their 8 best ways to remix your lube use!

Lube Your Boobs
Let’s face it, there are two kinds of straight guys in the world: Boob guys and butt guys. If your man is a boob guy, why not give him a little extra slippery surprise on his favorite body part? Put a thin, water-based lube on your chest and let direct him to glide his penis between your breasts. It will give him a similar sensation of penetration, but with a much more appealing visual.
Visit The Other Side Of The Condom
A lot of people use a lubricant in addition to condoms for that extra smooth sensation, but most couples fail to explore what may be the best combination of lube and condoms ever invented: Lube on the other side. Instead of just putting lube on the outside of the condom, place a dime-sized amount on the inside of the rubber to give him extra pleasure. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: Erogenous Zones

Posted on September 17, 2012 by Quinn

The easiest way to get your partner heated up before the main act is simple and straight forward: Hit their erogenous zones.

Men and women have several areas on their body that have more nerves than others, making them extra sensitive and more likely to get your partner’s libido going. If you want the biggest bang for your buck in the foreplay game, you’ve got to start hitting their trigger spots!

Check out what our Sexperts say are the top 5 most sensitive and sexually stimulating areas for men and women.

If you’re turning on your girl…

Collar bone
If you’ve ever kissed your girl on her neck before, you’ve probably noticed that her breath picks up a little when you did. A woman’s collar bone has extremely thin skin, making their nerves more sensitive to a gentle touch, like a kiss or a light breath. Continue reading →

This Post Is For The Ladies: How To Get Your Man To Do What You Like In Bed

Posted on September 13, 2012 by Quinn

You’re home alone, you’re getting hot and heavy, and you’re ready to have a good time. After taking your time pleasing your man orally, it’s only naturally to assume that he’ll be doing the same thing in return. But let’s be serious here– That doesn’t happen. Once you’ve gotten your man going, there’s almost no slowing him down on his way to he home plate.

The problem with that is you want him to slow down! Letting him skip foreplay is like trying to go down a water slide before someone has turned the faucet on.

Our Sexperts know that it can be a little awkward trying to ask your man to do specifics in bed, so we have four easy ways to gently let your man know what you want to ensure you get it!

“I love when you take your time doing that– It feels so good.”
Nothing boosts a guy’s ego than letting him know you’re enjoying what he’s doing, and if you’re smart, you can use that little ego stroke to your advantage! Instead of just telling him that it feels good, tell him how much you like it when he takes his time doing it. As he keeps going, play it up a little. The more you tell him you like it, the more he’ll be inclined to continue performing without the rush. Continue reading →

Monday Quickie: The Restaurant Restroom Rules

Posted on September 10, 2012 by Quinn

Sex in the bedroom gets boring after a while. After you’ve run through the positions and run out of new things to try from the Kama Sutra, it becomes painfully obvious that the bedroom is still the bedroom, and it’s hard to make that sexy once it has lost its luster. That’s why people branch out! Whether you’re Titanicing in the back of a car or joining the mile high club, doing it outside the bedroom is an exciting way to add the fire back into your sex lives.

According to a 2010 GQ study, the most common place to do it outside of the house is in a restaurant. But for those looking for a little discretion and aren’t interested in attracting attention on their way to the lou, we have a few simple things you need to keep in mind when you’re going for a rest room quickie.

Don’t self-pleasure before hand
A lot of men feel the need to relieve the tension in their bodies before a date, but this can lead to a delayed male orgasm and can cause your quickie to run long. Really long. In order to make sure that your quickie is quick, don’t masturbate for at least a full day prior to your nearly-public romp. Continue reading →

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