When guys jump in bed, there’s usually only two things on their mind: Getting er in and getting er off. That’s great for you when you’re accomplishing your goal, but what about the girl your with? Are you sure she’s enjoying that hard-and-fast thrusting you’ve been giving her is something you both enjoy?

If you want to turn the tables and concentrate on pleasing your woman instead of concentrating on being pleased yourself, our Sexperts are sharing the 5 hottest things that set women off in the bedroom.

5. Get Your Edward Cullen On
No, this isn’t a suggestion that you throw on glitter and act like a 17-year-old vampire. We’re talking about what vampires do– Bite necks. The skin between a woman’s collarbone to the base of her ear is amongst the thinnest in her entire body. What’s that mean? Nearly fully exposed nerve endings. Hard, passionate kisses and gentle nibbling along her neck mixed with light blowing on the moist trail you’ve left will create an irresistible mix of hot and cold that will have her begging for more.

4. Use Your Words
Everyone has their insecurities– They’re not sure if you like their moves, if you’ve noticed those 5 extra pounds you’ve been carrying, if you noticed that weird little moan they accidentally let out… Whatever their insecurities are, they’re enough to make a woman hold back in bed. But there’s no easier way to loosen her up and to clear her head then gently reassuring her that her worries are unjustified. Just how can you do that? Continue reading →