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Let’s face it ladies, to most men, blow jobs are an important part of the sexual experience. Blow jobs are so important in fact, that Men’s Health Magazine found during a poll of 1000 readers that 26% of them said they’d prefer to receive oral sex than have intercourse.

It may not be a deal breaker early on in your relationship, but after time he’s likely to get restless and bored with your sex life. The top preferred method of foreplay for men internationally is fellatio, so if you think sucking… well… sucks, you’re going to have to get over it!

Oral sex isn’t just pleasurable for your man, RedBook reported in 2010 that a majority of men actually consider the act more intimate than intercourse itself, so one of the best ways to overcome your aversion to them is to simply keep in mind that you’re making someone you love happy.

“We all do things we don’t want to in an attempt to make others happy,” says Dr. Kendra Carlisle, an Ohio-based phycologist. “It’s human instinct to put others needs ahead of our own. When we watch a movie we don’t necessarily want to see, it’s because of our internal need to please. Many sexually active adults have that same mentality when it comes to oral sex. Do women enjoy performing it? Most likely not, but they do it because they know it’s desired by their partner.”

There’s a psychological connection for men between blow jobs and an emotional connection. Dr. Carlisle claims that men receiving oral sex symbolizes acceptance from a woman, because it’s a completely selfless act– The woman is getting no pleasure from the act herself, so the man makes the mental connection that her feelings must be genuine for her to do it.

For some women, their aversion to performing them is because men aren’t exactly the cleanest in that area, but there are easy solutions to this. The first is the most logical, but often the hardest to do: Be honest! Telling your man that after a long day it’s natural for him to be sweaty down there, which doesn’t exactly feel the best for you when you’re the one that has to taste the day. If you’re not ready to be that honest, simply get him clean! Suggest he hop in the shower with you. Soaping each other up isn’t just a great way to begin your foreplay– it will put your mind at ease for the cleanliness factor as well.

Although many women are still asking themselves whether or not they want to do it, they should be asking themselves when they’re going to do it. A healthy oral sex life is a great way to ensure your relationship is going to be free of an unnecessary added stress.