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It’s Hump Day! The one day of the week where you finally feel like you’re in a rhythm with your work and when you’re not too far away from the freedom which is the weekend. The only problem? It’s also the day where most people are so involved with their lives that they tend to neglect the much needed time that the bedroom requires.

It’s been widely reported by relationship experts that people who have more sex are likely to live happier and healthier lives. In fact, new research from the University of Toronto claims that couples who have sex more than 11 times a month are twice as likely to avoid divorce than couples who have less sex.

If you’re too tired to think of simple ways to get sexual this week, Sex Search has you covered: Here are three quick, simple and easy things you can do to add a little spice to your lackluster weekday sex life!

Wednesday Night: Break out the blindfold!

Blindfolding your partner while having sex isn’t anything new, but taking them somewhere unique is! Blindfold your partner and lead them to a place in the house where the two of you haven’t had sex before. This way when you’re doing it, you get full control over them. Unlike having sex in the bed or on the couch where you’re both familiar with the feel and shape of, having them in a place where you’ve never done it will give them no choice but to do what you say.

Thursday Night: Surprise Sex

Generally when a couple engages in intercourse, there are the tell-tale signs leading up to it: Overt flirtation, a melodically thought out sexy wardrobe, general foreplay… It’s not something that happens out of thin air. But imagine how turned on they would be if it was? Set up a quiet night in so they have no expectations of sex and surprise them with oral sex without any lead up. The surprise will get them turned on, and the sensation will be a great lead in to a night of fun sex!

Friday Night: Play Boss

There’s no doubt that after a long week at the office you’re likely to carry some of that stress home with you. 5 days of mean-boss build up is enough to get into the heads of even the strongest people. If your partner has become accustomed to hearing you complain about your boss, show them how if feels to be you! Tell them that you’re going to be the boss for the night, and that they have to do everything you say. After all, sex is work, and work is all about pleasing the head honcho. Tell them what positions you want them to do, if you want them to do it faster, slower, harder or softer, where to kiss, where to touch, and when to cum. Being directed is a point of excitement for men and women, so taking the reins in the bedroom will be equally exciting for both sexes. And if you want to have even more fun with it– Dress up! It will feel great having someone tear off your office attire, and you’ll have the opportunity to use the tie to bind them, meaning even more control for you!

When you’re in a comfortable relationship, it’s easy to let the opportunity for adventurous weekday sex to pass you by, but if you’re only having sex on the weekends, you’re really nothing more than close friends during the week. Keep your love life alive with sex every day of the week!