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So you finally found someone online that you actually want to keep around for a little bit. You start getting together more, start having sex on a consistent basis, and before you know it, things start to cool down in the bedroom. When you start to get into a routine with a new partner, it’s hard to keep things fresh in the bedroom.

How do you make sure you’re not making things dull? What can you do to freshen things up if you’ve been with your partner for awhile?

Our Sexperts have found 5 simple and effective tips that you can do in the bedroom to make sure that your passion remains high.

1. Don’t dim the lights
   Everyone is more confident in bed when the lights are off. You don’t have to worry about them seeing the cellulite on your thighs, the extra chub around your belly, the way your boobs awkwardly bounce every time you thrust… There are countless reasons why lights out is better for your ego– But it’s not necessarily better for his eyes. GQ Magazine found in a 2010 survey that nearly 80% of their male readers listed  doggy style as their favorite sex position. Why? Because men use visuals as a stimulant during intercourse! That’s why keeping the lights on during sex is so hot for men. It’s an act they’re not used to experiencing, and it allows them to admire every part of your body (even the parts you don’t like!). Next time the two of you are in the bedroom, keep the lights turned on. It’ll ensure that you’re keeping him turned on as well.
2. Bring back Halloween
   Just because the calendar doesn’t say ‘October 31′ doesn’t mean you can’t dress up! Putting on an outfit and pretending to be someone else for a night is exotic and exciting. Whether you’re dressed as a sailor or simply a burlesque girl, putting on a costume and living out a fantasy as someone else allows you to be as dirty or as rough as you want without feeling completely vulnerable.
3. Limit lip service
   A kiss can be a powerful tool in bed, but it can also act as a distraction when you’re trying to concentrate on intercourse. Set a rule before you start that the two of you can’t kiss. It forces you to find other things to do while having sex, and often results in more time facing each other in bed. A little eye contact can go a long way!
4. Keep the clothes on
   He looks amazing in that fitted dress shirt and skinny tie, and you’ve never felt sexier in that new dress you just bought. Why ruin the illusion by stripping down completely? Sure a little skin can be a sexy thing, but a little style can be, too! Take off only the essentials (meaning whatever is in the way of your privates getting close) and keep the rest on.
5. Send in the toys!
   When all else fails, go shopping! New massage oils, heating lubes, vibrators, dildos, dolls, whips, ties… There are endless options when it comes to toys you can incorporate in the bedroom, so you have no excuse of letting things get dull. If things start to get routine during sex, simply bring in the back up.

There are many reasons that sex can go south, but boredom in the bedroom shouldn’t be one of them!