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Setting Yourself Up For Failure

Like everything, online dating has a recipe for success. Things like love, passion, trust and compatibility are all factors when it comes to dating success. Not only can missing one of those ingredients hinder your potential success, but adding in other elements can contribute to your failure as well.

Take some like Jessica Simpson. She’s been infamous in the past few years because all of her high profiled relationships seem to crumble within the first few years. In interviews she talks about love as if she’d give up the world to have it, yet all that dedication doesn’t stop her from ruining her own relationships. The mistakes she makes in relationships are common and easily avoidable, but you have to know what you’re looking for to avoid it. So what are those key things she’s failing at?

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When she was with Nick Lachey, she had the opportunity to have a long and lasting relationship. Instead of clearing her head of what other people were saying, she always caved to the outside pressure. She had her friends, family, industry insiders and the general public all sticking in their two cents about the relationship, and instead of following her heart, she’d listen to what they had to say about her sex life, her love life, and her day-to-day life with her husband, which eventually got to be too much to handle.

During her second relationship, she did something almost all people do– She let other people’s negativity effect her relationship. When you’re in an adult relationship, it’s easy for people to judge and be critical. It’s important that you take what they say into consideration as they’re probably looking out for you, but never think too much about it! Yours and your partners opinions should be the only ones that effect your relationship.

In Jessica’s current relationship, she’s committing yet another dating felony: She’s letting the past hold her back. She had her wedding scheduled and the dress bought, but because her ex husband and ex boyfriend had weddings planned for the same time, she called it off!

Don’t set yourself up for failure. Catch relationship ending red flags before the become big problems and finally be successful in love!

  • Knowledge wants to be free, just like these atrielcs!

    Mahala

    October 23, 2011

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