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The best part about December (besides the family and the friends and the presents, of course) is the fact that everyone seems to be in the giving mood. So giving, in fact, that people are going to me more inclined to try new things you suggest!

The idea that sex toys are only for adults who are into swinging or strictly sex dating is a vintage way of thinking. Your standard sex is good for day-to-day, but you need to keep things in the bedroom spiced up! Changing positions isn’t going to be enough to upkeep a steamy love life. Opening your mind to the world of sex toys is the best way to enhance your sex life and increase intimacy between partners.

When you’re entering no-mans-land for the first time, where do you start? Are there such things as beginner sex toys, or do you have to go straight to the leather masks with whips and chains? If you think the world of pleasure and pain is a little too intimidating for you, fear no more: Your friends at SexSearch are here to show you the way to sex toy pleasure for two.

COCK RINGS

Cock rings are a great way to ease yourself into sex toys because they’re not intimidating in the slightest. Unlike dildos which have a tendency to make a man feel like less of a man, cock rings look like the base of a condom, more or less. They’re simple O-Shaped bands that have a small vibrator on them. You place them at the base of your penis and voila! You’re ready to go at it. What do they do, exactly? Well the vibrator stimulates her clitoris (and fellas, if you don’t know by now, this is a very important detail to the female experience), and the ring itself restricts blood flow to your penis, making your erection harder and last longer. It’s a pretty great win-win considering they will only run you about $12!

PILLOW WEDGES

If you’ve ever noticed your friends have some odd triangle shaped pillows they won’t let you use, it’s probably because they use them to bang. Pillow wedges are triangle shaped pillows that are used to prop a female up during missionary sex. Since it’s an actual pillow and you’ll be mainly using it for a position you’re surely both familiar and comfortable with, there’s nothing to be timid about when using it for the first time. The strategy behind it simple: Have the female lay with her back on the pillow so she’s more arched than normal. Because of her angle, you’re able to not only have deeper penetration which will feel great for you, but you’re more likely to stroke her G-Spot during intercourse, which will leave her with a smile on her face. As for the pillow, the cover is removable and stain resistant, which makes for easy clean up.

HANDCUFFS

Now we’re getting into the fun ones! Handcuffs may seem like a big step, but trust us: Once you start to use it, you’ll wonder why you hadn’t been the whole time. If you’re uncomfortable with the idea of handcuffs, something as simple as a silk scarf will do the same job with a much more unassuming appearance. Restricting someones hands during sex isn’t about domination as most people think, it’s about having the ability to take someone the way you want in order to give yourself the maximum pleasure. Have you ever had someone tell you exactly what they wanted in bed? It’s pretty hot. Seeing someone use your body any way they way to get off is a very hot experience for both parties! Whether it’s the girls tied up or its the guy, it’s guaranteed to be a good time.

VIBRATORS

This is where guys start getting nervous, but have no fear boys: Vibrators aren’t as scary as they sound. And better yet, they’re not just for her! Sure vibrators are great for clitoral stimulation on her, but have you ever had your balls vibrated? Think about when a girl has your testicles in her mouth and moans. There’s not a lot of things in this world that feel better than that! Now imagine if you could have that feeling while you’re having sex. It’s about as great as it sounds. If you’re not comfortable holding a vibrator while you’re trying to get it on, there’s a great alternative in something called the We Vibe. It’s a C shaped vibrator that actually goes half inside her and half out. Confused? Put your index finger and your thumb in a C shape. Now imagine that you have one finger inside her, so your thumb is rested against her clitoris. That’s how it works. The inside edge clings to her front vaginal wall so there’s still plenty of room for your penis, but you both get the added benefit of the vibrations.

…And it only goes up from there! Get in the spirit of the giving season and give someone a little extra pleasure between the sheets.