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Chances are if you met your adult friend online, there are going to be times that the two of you have to maintain a long distance relationship.

If you’re faced with being hours apart every day, you need to put in extra effort to make your relationship work.

“Some separation can be good for a relationship because you get the chance to miss each other, but, no matter how much you’re in love, it’s important to do some creative stuff to stay connected,” says therapist and author of The Commuter Marriage: Keep Your Relationship Close While You’re Far Apart, Tina Tessina.

According to Tessina, you can’t let long distance relationships develop naturally the way you would a normal relationship, as you don’t have the physical interaction to stimulate your thoughts and feelings towards each other.

So how do you keep things hot when it’s cold and you’re alone? Check out Sex Search’s tips for keeping your flame alive!

Explore the Kama Sutra
There’s not much hotter than having the person you’re dating tell you exactly what they want to do in bed. Now imagine if they told you what they wanted by the bulk? You’d get so hot that you’d consider jumping on a plane to be with them! If you want a fun way to spice things up, go to the book store and buy a copy of the Kama Sutra. Make note of what positions you want to try and what you like, then mail it to the person you’re dating. That way they won’t just get a visual of what you’ll be doing, but it’ll build the anticipation until the next time you see them in a very good way.

Go shopping for lingerie… And bring your camera phone
There’s a certain thrill that comes along with trying on lingerie. You get to feel sexy in numerous ways, and it gets you excited for the night you actually get to use it. Next time you’re in a Victora’s Secret dressing room and can’t choose between two hot little numbers, snap a quick shot of yourself in both and send it to your man asking his opinion. That way you get to know which one he likes better and you get him thinking about you in that outfit until he sees it in the flesh!

Make his schedule a little more exciting
Think about how many things you have to take note of in one day. Now imagine if he got to see a sexy picture of you every time he wrote a new task down? It would make his day a lot more enjoyable! In season 2 of Keeping Up With The Kardashians, Kim had a personal photo shoot done so she could create a calendar for then-boyfriend Reggie Bush. Now you don’t have to go as far as hiring your own camera crew, but picking your sexiest shots to create a calendar would insure that he’s thinking about you every day of the year.

Spice Up Your Skype Life
Skype is the closest thing most couples have to face time. Unfortunately, that time is usually filled with boring conversation with the two of you talking in your casual clothes. Next Skype date you have, set the scene before logging in. Light candles in the room and keep the lights dim, and wear something extra special to get his attention. You can take phone sex above and beyond with Skype, and it’s a definite advantage to long distance couples!

If you want to keep the passion alive in your long distance relationship, you need to get creative! Keep things fun and flirty with these easy tips and you’ll be enjoying your time apart before you know it.