About jjandtkalt

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• Age: 43
• Photos: 1 Public
• Sex: straight single man

Recent Status: Friends with Benefits

Location: Circle Pines, Minnesota

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About Me: A dear friend once told me, "You are the oddest dichotomy I've ever know. But I've never laughed as much or enjoyed being with someone as much as I do with you. I mean, sure, sex is fun too, but I just honestly enjoy being with you." I smiled, pause a moment before I was going to say 'thank you' but stopped myself and asked, "It's that the point of having a partner to play with?" Be it 'vanilla' play or 'kinky' play, it's all about the people involved both enjoying what the other has to offer. There is another part of my life that this has helped in. I am married. Oddly enough, my wife is my equal, but not kinky at all and doesn't join me for play. Yet, because of the honesty and openness, she and I enjoy a wonderful relationship. She will know of any partner I have and the goings on, but has requested not to be told of details or have anyone else "inform her" of them. Respecting me will require respecting her and her wish. Sex, in all it's forms, is the most adult form of play. It is to be enjoyed, cherished, wanted, explored, and engaged in ofter. Sex is play, but it is not a game. The worst offense one can make in intimate play, it to make a mockery of the other persons wants and desires just to "get another one". This is not a game for me, don't let it be for you.