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• Age: 55
• Photos: 1 Public
• Sex: straight single man

Recent Status: Seeking enlighened liaison

Location: Eugene, Oregon

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About Me: Sex is not the thing, and yet you and I can’t live without it.  It’s like sex is a physical necessity, as much as food and water and air and light.  But it’s also not exactly the point of it all.  I used to believe in sex as the essence of love, and that I could have it all in one transcending relationship – sex, love, partnership, shared destiny, soul-blending, and complete unification, the definition of marriage.  But that doesn’t make any sense to me now, at least not at this time in my life.  I’m a full-time single father, and a self-employed entrepreneur.  I am also a blend of artist and intellectual.  My life is full.  The only thing missing is sex; and not just sex, but physical connection with a woman, that heart-opening, soul-relaxing love that happens in the presence of intimacy between strong loving people.  I want good things for me and the people in my life, but I don’t necessarily think they come in one package, in conventional wrapping.  I believe it’s possible to have , a business, friends… and lovers. Write me; we can talk and I'll send you pics.