About WarmVanillaOne

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• Age: 33
• Sex: straight single man

Recent Status: If u've been naughty, go 2 ur room, if u wanna be naughty come 2 mine ;)

Location: Whitby, Ontario

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About Me: I'm important, But so are other people, especially if they are in trouble. I have a tender heart, but I know how to establish and keep personal boundaries. I'm empathetic and compassionate, but also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves, if they are able. I'm deeply moved by the needs of others, but know that if you don't take good care of yourself, you'll wind up being of no use to anyone. So yours is a thoughtful compassion. I strive to be fair and sensible, taking care of others while also taking care of myself. When someone really is in trouble, I like to collaborate with them toward a solution; they do their part, and I do mine. I consider carefully, and respond in a sensible way; they do their part, and together we move through the difficulty. I seldom act impulsively; rather, when a problem arises, I take my time to think through the situation. This contemplative quality usually means i'll arrive at a diplomatic solution, one that's fair for the other person and also fair to me. It's frequently a win/win situation.